Singles & Dating - 28 November 2006

i've been with my bf for 6 years,we' ve been talking about marriage, but he never told me a date,until this past month we planned to get married this week.but on sunday i asked and he said "about that, we should put it of,my mom said we should wait" i got pissed off and told him if he didn't want to marry me then why the **** was he with me.so i broke it off.he kept calling and i din't pick up,i went to my friends house and drank,later i spoke to him and agreed to go to the movies,i got dropped off at his house and he said he didn't want to get married now,but in acouple of months, that he had talked to his parents and his family and he wanted to wait. i got mad again,threw th ring at him and ran off.he kept on pulling,so i hit him and said i was calling the cops.his mom came after me and offered a ride,i said no thanks,but they kept bugging so i sid ok.she started taking me back to him and i didn't want to,so i started talking ****.should i apologize to her? i got back with her son.

2006-11-28 14:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by ASHLEY 1

2006-11-28 14:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by h.bowser 1

i have dated both an airforce guy and a navy guy and they both look so dam sexy and it just makes me want to rip it right off of them.

2006-11-28 14:38:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. He said he like big girls...tada...I'm a big girl!
2. He asked if I like black guys. I do!
3. He says it means a lot to him when I say
BYE before I leave work, but I have to walk to another
department to do so.
4. He makes sure to say when we'll work together again.
Like when I left Monday...He said see ya Friday.
5. If I'm not there, he goes to my boss to see what's wrong.
I've been sick a lot this year.
6. He says he wouldn't mind coming over to help me wash my car for free. He made everyone else pay.
7. He kinda stays away from me but watches me from a distance.
8. He says I matter more than all the other females at work.
9. I thought he had a girlfriend, but he said she's not a gf. What is "just a friend"?
10. He mentiones me to other people when I'm not anywhere around and they tell me later. Like he brags on my music to friends.
He jokingly asked me to GO TO HAWAII with him. I said I'd have to know what "this" was before I'd go ...He said You're my friend! So?

2006-11-28 14:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate being cocky or arrogant. However, there is this sweet girl that I like and who likes me. I asked her out once, and she said not yet. I was about to ask her out again, but a good looking guy has become close to her. The problem I have is not his looks though...its his *********, which makes him very popular with the ladies. For example, I complimented the girl on her jacket, and he was nearby and said "I gave it to her" when I know he didn't. The girl loved his response. He has said a number of such "lies" to sound cocky and I can tell that this girl (and a lot of others) love it -- he is popular with the ladies, but all the guys who know him dislike him. He plays on women's insecurities too, and than ditches them.

I felt like cursing him when he did these things -- and I am stronger than him. However, I have never been cocky in that way, and never put down other guys if I am interested in a woman.

I don't know how to respond to this. And I know he will hurt her too.

2006-11-28 14:35:18 · 2 answers · asked by Apeman 1

This is in regards to my girlfriend, possibly fiancee, who says that I don't ask her enough questions and claims that I don't really 'know the real me'. This is a long distance relationship that's been going on for 8 plus years. We've seen each other quite a few times over the years, with her sometimes coming here and me sometimes going there. Tentative plans are for her to come here to stay until I have my time in where I work, and then we'll go from there.

2006-11-28 14:34:58 · 4 answers · asked by Joey 1

I'm a short kid i'm pretty cute and i'm really funny but deep down i'm shy around girls so i never really asked anyone out ever. Girls are always like "ur so cute i just want to....." but it's never an actual interest in me none of those girls actually like me in a dating fashion. Please help me i'm am in a dilemma and all my friends have had girlfriends before except me it's pretty embarassing and my time is running out i mean i am in grade 10. So plz. tell me what i should do and how to let girls know that i am just like any other boy they think becuz i'm short i'm innocent and don't know anything. anyone thanks alot.

2006-11-28 14:33:26 · 19 answers · asked by Sami 1

on friday night,over thanksgiving break,my boyfriend texted me when i asked if we could talk for awhile,that he was drunk.his (25 yr old?) brother is a firefighter,& my bf was helping out over there,& he said his bro & the other fire fighters let him drink.he's over 18, so there's no problem there,but i'm just worried about him,b/c he's kinda wild & tends to get in trouble.i've seen what happens plenty of times when friends got addicted to alcohol,& i don't want it to happen to my bf.i luv him so much,& i'm just really worried about him,that even though he says he won't get addicted,i can't help wondering that he might b/c of him being kinda wild & his tendency for trouble.he smoked 1 time too,but he hasn't done that since,so i'm not worried about that,unless it happens again.but was it right of me to tell on him,b/c i'm so worried about him?we're both in high school too,senior yr.i just don't want him to get addicted,& his dreams get gone b/c of alcohol.he doesn't know i told either.

2006-11-28 14:33:17 · 7 answers · asked by K.D. 3

Hi,

My ex got in touch with me after quite some time. She said she wants to meet up as friends which I dont have a problem with, but she insists nobody sees us and it's all in secret! I dont get it, if were just meeting as mates then why the cloak and dagger routine ???

2006-11-28 14:32:44 · 6 answers · asked by loopyhaze 3

if so, what type?

2006-11-28 14:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by thugster17 2

I look at ladies, in the street, in the mall, etc., for more than a couple of seconds, with a pleasant face and a Mona Lisa smile. Indirectly I am saying that " I appreciate the way you present yourself". Do ladies liked to be looked at, or do they resent it?

2006-11-28 14:31:58 · 22 answers · asked by kenneth h 6

i met this guy on new years he came up to me and we chetted and starred in to each others eyes and then kissed we dated for a bit and i se him out every weekend, when i get male attentin he gets very jealous even when we have broken up for a bit and he sees me with another guy, just talking he has grabbed a girl and brought her over right in front of my face and started to hug her and then turn and look at me..1 why has he done this? Also i text him to apologise for all the fighting and said my friends were laughing at some of the things that had happed he texted back 'dont worry about it it doesnt matter. Glad you and your friends can laugh about it. Take care. what does this mean? I cant stop thinking about him does this mean im in love with him?

2006-11-28 14:30:29 · 2 answers · asked by racheal m 1

2006-11-28 14:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half and I've fallen head over heels but theres a catch....Early on he confessed that he loved me but i never responded because I've been hurt before. When we are together its great but getting there is the hard part. Hes busy so its hard to get together and even harder when he lies about it. He refuses to tell his mom because he "knows" it wont end well since she told him not to date. Im tired of all the lies and the disappointment when he cant make it to the already hard plans. I just try not to get my hopes up. I know already that he cant go to this big event with me cause getting it past his mom would be too difficult so I've already had my guy friend set the date aside. Hes let me down so many times yet i cant leave him because i think i might love him....should i stay or just pack it up and move on?? Please help

2006-11-28 14:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by desperate for help 1

she opened up her locker on valentine's day and found a boquet of flowers in her locker?

I've liked this girl for a while and i'm thinking about doing this on valentine's day. We're good friend's, but we don't really hang out.

I'm not sure what type of flowers to put in her locker if i do?roses? her favorite color is purple.

Also, would u girls think it was sweeter to find roses in your locker or flower's of your favorite color?

2006-11-28 14:28:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't marry a black man

2006-11-28 14:27:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

SERIOUSLY, NO JOKES....IM REALLY IN THE NEED FOR HELP CAUSE IM GOING SHOPPING SOON FOR CHRISTMAS WITH MY MOM!!!


what would you think would be a good gift for a guy friend? i really like him and so does he, but we arn't really in a rush, we're just laying back...anyways, i was thinking of a pac sungift card of 15 dollars?? is that too little or not even a good gift....he told me recently that he wanted clothes cause he practically cant afford it.....i want to give him something but im not sure!!!! plz hel and thanx to an1 who tries..

2006-11-28 14:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by googoo 3

and i think he likes me. he stares at me a lot and smiles at me, but sometimes he acts like i dont even exist! hes only 13 so im wondering if it is his age..............or does he not even like me at all?
wat do u think?

2006-11-28 14:27:15 · 3 answers · asked by ~002~ 2

Summary- My b/f and I went out when I was an eighth grader and he broke my heart twice, just b/c he didn't think it was working. Then we went back out in the summer of my Junior year. I then broke up w/ him for another guy. A couple weeks later, broke up w/ the other guy for him. Then, indecisive me, broke up w/ him again after I cheated on him with a different guy that the first one, but I didn't tell him about it until recently (now that we are going out once again). After all of this he still loves me and he is like the best guy in the world and I don't know what I'd do w/o him and I plan on marrying him. But, he brings up a girl he made out w/ (and that's all he did), and I simply wanted him to agree that she wasn't pretty, and he didn't. I got upset and hung up. I know that was a little immature, but I don't talk about any past guys anymore and I love him so much. But it really bothered me that he couldn't tell me she wasn't pretty. I don't know how to get over my jealousy

2006-11-28 14:26:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is really sort of friendly with one of my friends. Just wondering if women think about that like men do.

2006-11-28 14:25:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've liked a guy for a few days now, and as a freshmen, im pretty popular but hes a sophmore and ive never talked to him except maybe a few sentences...hes really cute and i like him very much, but for once in my life im NERVOUS* and im going crazi over him and everyone tells me to talk to him but i CANT its just impossible, and i dont know what to do!?! HELP?!

2006-11-28 14:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by waters_grl24 1

2006-11-28 14:24:19 · 31 answers · asked by deedee b 1

I recently just moved and im looking to meet new friends here in singapore. Somebody to do stuff with, you know show me around, ins nad outs of the city... help please.

2006-11-28 14:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by bianca b 2

What does it mean when a guy writes take care at the end of a message ????
what ot they generally mean does it mean i like you take care or take care as in goodbye...i dated this guy for a bit we both liked each other he asked me if i wanted to go away with him for a week house sitting his family home they have...long story shory i was really stressed about my work and acted a bit strange like snapped at him for no reason we broke up but when i have seen him out he always stars at me and get jealous if im taliking to other guys... anyway i texted him the other day to apologise about acting wierd..he texted back and he hasnt done this much i have been appologising fora while ...it said"dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad you and your frineds can laugh about it. Take care" what does this mean..initially when i met him he had been looking at me for about 40minutes before he approached me. Men could you please help me interpret his actions..i really like him but am confused by his signals what should one do?XXX

2006-11-28 14:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1

I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.

2006-11-28 14:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by Michael S 1

ABHISHEK

2006-11-28 14:22:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy shows a lot of intrest in being with me. he tells me his feelings for me are foreal but i told him that i do not return those feelings.. i lied and said i need to focus in school instead but in reality its because i like another guy

this other guy gives me mixed signals. but im happy with him, and he is so sweet maybe not just to me.. but he's the one i want to be with. sometimes though, i just think he wants to copy my hw and is nice to me. But other times i think he is too shy to say anything else

2006-11-28 14:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by sam3345 1

How do i tell this guy that i dont like him, Him and I r just friends, but he doesn't want us to be friends, how do i tell him that i just dont like him at all only as a friend. i alraedy tryed it once telling him that i just don't like him but he thoght that i was just palying around with him! What do i do!?

2006-11-28 14:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by CrIsTiNa 1

I have been seeing this guy for about a month now and we are still getting to know eachother and decide where our relationship is. What I think I am looking for is somebody for a long term relationship who I can marry and have children with. That may sound old fashioned, and I am young but I kind of want that. I don't want to date somebody for no reason and miss out on my future husband.

Anyway, tonight he asked me if I ever thought I would have kids. I said yes. I asked him, and he said No. Than I asked why, and he said because he doesn't want a bunch of different children with different woman. He has two with his ex wife.

So I got upset but pretended I was okay than excused myself, so he followed me and asked what was wrong and why was I being cold all of a sudden. I said, Nothing I just have things I have to do tonight. Than after that he said, 'Fine, don't bother calling me again'

That is all after he told me he really liked me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-11-28 14:18:22 · 37 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1

2006-11-28 14:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by katie 1