Singles & Dating - 26 November 2006

I had been with this guy for 3 yrs and only one time as he taken me out in all those 3 yrs. I love him, but it's getting old. He never buys me flower, never takes me to the movies, or even a walk . Nothing. I asked him about it, He says he doesn't have the time. I've broken up with him many many times, but he keeps coming back. I even moved. But he keeps telling me he still wants to be with me. So I tell him to take me out, he keeps telling me that if he had time to do that he would. He's a sweet man, non abusive in anyway. Just not very thoughtful when it comes to taking his girlfriend out. Should I find someone else, I am 42 and am tired of this game. I want to settle down.

2006-11-26 10:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by cnacyn 1

He knows i like him cuz my friends told him so one day my friends drag me to him and i trip and bumped into him while i felled. He act like he didnt want 2 b around me. He just stood there and looked at me from da corner of his eye. Im was so embrassed. How can i tell if he likes me. He told his friends dat i never talk 2 him even doe i like him. wat should i do?

2006-11-26 10:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

patooty and nosey parker hahahahaahahahahahahaha (im not on cheap drugs)

2006-11-26 10:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Both of our intentions were just to have fun but then feelings got involved, can this really work out? And also ladies would you consider her less of a lady because we had sex before any commitment or even knowing each other for only a month or so before we did it? (I know it shouldn't matter if i care about here, but I was jw)

2006-11-26 10:45:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

After inviting himself down to my holiday home (I'm staying away from London for a month working) two weeks ago my new flame has not contacted me. He has also ignored a text asking if he was ok. I phoned him casually tonight and he answered the call and was friendly. He acted as if never mentioned anything and reminded me of the fact that i acted as if wanted to finish the relationship the last time we spoke. He said he would call me tomorrow but i'm not sure whether to continue the relationship. If he really wants to be with me then of course i will be keen. But not sure if he's just being half hearted. I'm not sure? Is he trying to play it cool? Or should i just ignore his call?

2006-11-26 10:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend walks around with bad underarm odor, smelly breath, and bad butt smell! weve been together for 3 months and he just started this a month ago. he hasnt took a shower in 3 weeks. hes depressed because he doesnt have a job. what should i do?? ive tried everything but he said if i left him he would kill himself! help??

2006-11-26 10:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so here it goes, I really like this guy, but there is a very big difference in our respective heights...i am 5'2" and he is 6'5". Is that too much of a difference? I think we look cute together...but other people think it would be way too strange and hard to work with if we started dating...what do you all think????

2006-11-26 10:43:44 · 5 answers · asked by Erin B 2

If people say this all the time, shouldn't I be confident?

2006-11-26 10:40:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so theres this guy at school and he really likes me more like he's obessed w/ me...he keeps saying that i'm his gf and on AIM in his away messages he always puts i love u mary....ok so i dont really wanna go out w/ him at the moment what do i do?

2006-11-26 10:39:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is committment in a relationship? How do we show it? What does our bf/gf/spouse do that shows they are committed?

I am asking b/c I have been going through all this crap w/ the gf, like it seems like we love each other very much, still very attracted to each other, but she can't get over ...Something! and commit. So I have been asking myself what a "committment" from her would look like, if you follow. Just wanted to see what you had to say.

2006-11-26 10:39:30 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

Does anyone ever feel really down and start to physically hurt (like their heart starts to ache and stomach feels quesy) when their partner leaves and you know that it will be a long time until you get the chance to see them again? Why does it happen? What does it mean?

2006-11-26 10:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with him be cause I was tired of the annoying harrassmaent i would get I LOVE HIM!

2006-11-26 10:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by Cheerleader 2

So about a month ago, I met a boy named Alan at a football game through a friend. We really clicked, and ended up walking home, hand and hand. He asked for any of my messengers, so we could talk some. We talked for about a week on MSN before we met up again, this time at the movie theatre. once we got into the movie, he grabbed my hand, and I didn't think of anything of it. Then things got out of hand. He would move his hand onto my leg and stroke my thigh. Then after about ten minutes, he moved into kiss me, and in sheer panic, I kissed him back. We ended up making out. Okay, let's fast forward. I did tell one friend, and she is in highschool. and when I did tell her, her mouth dropped. She then told me she knew who Alan was, and he's a senior, and 18. I'm in 8th grade and 13. I freaked out. Earlier this week, he called me, wanting to "get closer to each other" I still don't know what to do. I think that he's using me, but I still want to be friends with him. Help?

2006-11-26 10:37:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not the type to sit there and wait.
if i want someone i'd just make my move
just sometimes they play hard to get
and i get paranoid and bomb them with texts

do guys play the game of treat them mean, keep them keen...
because they know it'd drive the girl crazy?

or is it just a way of saying "i don't actually like you that much?"

2006-11-26 10:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some girls names that guys like?

2006-11-26 10:36:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone just write me an example letter

2006-11-26 10:36:44 · 11 answers · asked by Miguel B 1

every other question says
how do i get him back
how do i make him like me
stuff of the sort.
QUESTION: IS IT ALWAYS GIRLS TRYING TO GET GUYS ATTENTIION, OR OTHER WAY AROUND

2006-11-26 10:36:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Too re-invent yourself ........ im noticed know but more attention would be great... any ideas (please ideas from men mainly

2006-11-26 10:35:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 10:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like these guys .. each in a different way. i like one becuz hes athletic cute and nice. the other ones are kinda shy but also really raelly cute and athletic. i dont kno what one to choose i have been thinkin about it lately and i dont kno what to do if u have an idea plz help me! thanks a bunch!

2006-11-26 10:34:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-26 10:33:36 · 23 answers · asked by Intellithug 3

theres this guy i really really like in my class how do i make him notice me more??????? he talks to me but thats not enough i need him to want me!!

2006-11-26 10:33:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does that line work on men so easyly, Is it because of my big boobs?

2006-11-26 10:32:40 · 31 answers · asked by Jessica J 1

On firday night, I made out with my friend. He had a couple of drinks and I was sober. I haven't spoken to him since and I don't know whether he's awkward or not. I don't really want to talk about it with him but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions? I need a best answer

2006-11-26 10:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Alexis 2

2006-11-26 10:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by Angel13 1

what do u do if the person u really really really like says that he doesn't like u but he'd go out with u if he had to pick

2006-11-26 10:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by Kaydi Em 2

i have no clue wat to give my grilfrend

2006-11-26 10:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by joey s 1

2006-11-26 10:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by duncabby 2

So I was out today with my parents and we stopped in this little old fashioned food market place by the side of the road, and the girl behind the counter was just too beautiful, like a model! Same age roughly, and she seemed just so sweet and nice. We kinda made eye contact a few times, just quickly but I think we were both aware of each other. What would be a good way to pursue her? Obviously I dont even know if she's single, and it would be a miracle if she was. I dont want to come across too fast or forward, but on the other hand I dont want to wait too long. And if I go and she's not there, what could I say to someone else working there to show interest? Any opinions? Thanks,

2006-11-26 10:27:01 · 15 answers · asked by JD 1

My girlfriend asked a personal question about myself on here. She mentions it but says I can't see it.

2006-11-26 10:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous