After inviting himself down to my holiday home (I'm staying away from London for a month working) two weeks ago my new flame has not contacted me. He has also ignored a text asking if he was ok. I phoned him casually tonight and he answered the call and was friendly. He acted as if never mentioned anything and reminded me of the fact that i acted as if wanted to finish the relationship the last time we spoke. He said he would call me tomorrow but i'm not sure whether to continue the relationship. If he really wants to be with me then of course i will be keen. But not sure if he's just being half hearted. I'm not sure? Is he trying to play it cool? Or should i just ignore his call?
2006-11-26 10:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"He acted as if never mentioned anything and reminded me of the fact that i acted as if wanted to finish the relationship the last time we spoke"
Well, all depends on whether you did act this way or not. On first reading I would say he is not that interested, and is happy for it to be your idea to break it off. Maybe he is not interested in a long distance relationship, and is more interested in a more 'accessible', and local girl that is around all the time, and with nothing too serious going on ;-)
If you had been playing it cool and not trying to put pressure on him, he may have thought you were not interested and is trying to save face, I suppose
Its normally good to be pretty obvious with blokes as we are not reknowned for being able to read signals ;-)
Maybe worth speaking more directly. At least you may as well if you are going to break it off. Not worth being worried about rejection - always more blokes out there....
2006-11-26 10:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Still Waters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ignore his call...if he calls. If he didn't return a call in so long chances are he might not call tomorrow. If he doesn't call U tomorrow...just move on and forget him.
2006-11-26 18:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mesa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I'm juggling 4 women or less, I can usually fake it enough to make a babe think she's the only one. When it gets over 5......
2006-11-26 18:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by reaganontherock 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Id wait and see if he call, He may not and if that's the case you will have your answer. But i wouldn't call him if he didn't.
2006-11-26 18:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by beverley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only one missed call/text wouldn't hurt.
as long as it's a once in awhile thing.
but i know how you feel ~
i get paranoid when guys don't reply...
2006-11-26 18:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure why guys do that, but in my experince they dont stop doing it, even if you talk to them about it. so i wouldnt bother, go for someone who will treat you better
2006-11-26 18:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by mintymoon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋