2006-11-26 10:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by Angel13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest that you tell the truth. Search your heart. Can you forgive him. If yes, then can you work toward a better relationship together. If yes, then pursue the relationship with love and fervor. If no to any of these, then re-evaluate your relationship. It may be time to say good-bye. Whatever you do, be honest. Both of you deserve that.
2006-11-26 10:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in a very familiar situation not to long ago... it hurt to find something like that out...but you know maybe he thought he needed a change and wanted to be single until he realized that it was not what he was looking for... trustiing is going to be real hard for you to do!! Me and my bf r still together and let me tell you i dont fully trust him even though i should!! Your the only one to know if he is telling you the truth or not!! None of us can help you on what to say and how to act!! I told my bf when he cheated on me and gave me the whole im sorry line .... that i will not trust him right away with anything, and that sorry is not just going to make everything better. Number one thing not to do is fall for im sorry and then him want sex DONT DO IT!! BE STRONG!!
2006-11-26 10:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you take him back, you're only teaching him that it's ok to do that to you. As much as it may hurt, your best bet for the long run would be to say: "Thanks, but no thanks" and walk away with your head up high. No one deserves that. Another thing to consider...do you really want to be with someone who thinks to little of himself to do such a thing? I would have a really hard time respecting and trusting him after that. What kind of a relationship would that be? Look up the word "relationship" up in the dictionary and decide what kind of relationship you want and if it matches any of the definitions. I don't believe that you'll find the words "cheating asshole" in there.
2006-11-26 10:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK Im going to be honest with you...and i hope you read this....
The first few years of a relationship are the best he is ever going to treat you...and if he cheats on you now he will cheat on you even more later....he's very sory that he got caught...and he wants to get in your pants again. Dont let him, forget him...find yourself a nice man who will worship you and wont be able to see any other woman as a desiarable object ever again.
They do exist...
2006-11-26 10:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Low 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost. You need to find someone better than him who really cares about you. If he cheated on you he does not really care about you & he will contuine to cheat. He will think you for forgave he once so you will forgive him again. Move on there are lots of guys out there that will want to be with you & only you.
2006-11-26 10:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did to and just be friends for awhile and begin to trust him and then maybe try again
2006-11-26 10:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Cheerleader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F$^&ck off A$$hole (The FInger)
2006-11-26 11:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by elpimpinbob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye and go find someone who won't cheat on you.
2006-11-26 10:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say whats in your heart. you know if you forgive him listen to your heart, that will guide you and it wil tell you if you really forgive him. and you can tell him how you felt about the whole situation
2006-11-26 10:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater!! Tell him to F off!
2006-11-26 10:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋