my boyfriend walks around with bad underarm odor, smelly breath, and bad butt smell! weve been together for 3 months and he just started this a month ago. he hasnt took a shower in 3 weeks. hes depressed because he doesnt have a job. what should i do?? ive tried everything but he said if i left him he would kill himself! help??
2006-11-26 10:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what he does is his responsibility and not on you at all--threats of suicide are usually not real, but even if they are, you have the right to leave him if you're unhappy. he's being manipulative and childish. if he needs mental health, find him a local therapist and give him the information before you leave him. you have the right to be happy and you are not in charge of his life.
2006-11-26 10:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will never get a job if he doesn' t shower and get off his butt and go look for one.
You are really being taken in by him. You have been together for 3 months. He has you supporting him and believing he will kill himself if you leave him. This guy is a pro........You are a sucker and an enabler............Kick his butt to the curb before he says he wants you to have his child......................
2006-11-26 22:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him out in the yard as trun the water hose on him give him a bar of soap.
2006-11-26 18:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offf thats discusting....I tell you ive been a slob from time to time but that is just gross.
Tell him you cant see him untill he gets his act togeater....
I didnt start wearing deoderent untill i was 20 i think and a girl told me she wouldnt go out with me again untill i did...its great i love the stuff now.
serisouly tho he is depressed and needs proffesional help
2006-11-26 18:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Low 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, try to brib him.. you know guys can be go-getters.. and like say a brib like for him to take a shower with you..that should for surely get him to take a shower.. if he doenst then thats tottally something is wrong with him and try to get him to work everything out with ya.. sorry to put it that way with shower wise, but im just trying to put it what a guy would do and what would him get him going to do so.. and i dont blame ya wnating him to shower, id be turned off myself if i was you.. Good luck!
2006-11-26 18:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ewwww. Sounds like he really is very depressed. He needs to see a professional, and soon, and then meet with a big bar of soap!
2006-11-26 18:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest with him say that he really need to take a shower if he really likes you then he'll understand
2006-11-26 18:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him what good is it gonna do being like that theirs lot of other jobs he could apply too.and to take a bath or if not you gonna have to leave him i know hes going through a hard time but acting like that ain't going to take him any where!
2006-11-26 18:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by `~*sheila *~` 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe tell him you'll take a shower with him?
I have no idea honestly. Christmas is coming
up though, maybe you could buy cologne or
something to help.
2006-11-26 18:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
have u tried getting into the shower first? if not a cold soapy flannel should do the trick, tell him you will do it for him, if he cant do it himself. (as soon as you touch him with the flannel, he will run into the shower).
2006-11-26 18:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by mintymoon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋