My girlfriend asked a personal question about myself on here. She mentions it but says I can't see it.
2006-11-26 10:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says that it has to do with something she is thinking of doing and is unsure about whether or not it's a good idea.
2006-11-26 11:02:36 · update #1
She did let you see it, so maybe now you should realize that she wasnt trying to hide anything from you!
2006-11-27 00:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both wish to maintain trust and honesty in your relationship, then yes. It may have been something harmless like "How many dates before you can kiss a boy?" or something as serious as "I've been going out with this guy for months should I have sex with him?" either way it was something she couldn't resolve with you or her friends and needed an independent, outside opinion.
Your question is the same thing. You may have already asked friends and family this, but you can't get a real answer because they will naturally pick sides.
She should show you the questions she posted, but I wouldn't press that matter unless she's using what we say to build her case for some argument ("This girl on Yahoo Answers said we shouldn't do this.") in which case you need to see exactly what people wrote and not how she interpreted it. You guys are together right now, that's all that matters. If you press the matter you'll only start a fight that could lead to a break up. You should tell her about this question if she doesn't already know you're taking a poll. Both of you should be honest with each other and if either of you post serious questions about your relationship here, than you should tell the other and then talk about it.
2006-11-26 18:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rukh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she mention it to you then yes she should let you see you don't need to be told about it but since you have been told you should know what it is... but then again it may be a surprise thing that she wants to do for you and asked other people for suggestions on it so i think somehow may be you better hold out and play on it for a while and if nothing comes of it then yes you should be aloud to see it in the end she is the only one that knows what she has written and is the only one that can let you see it so it may pay to be nice for a while but if you trust her then just let it go.
2006-11-26 18:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y did she tell you its on here then. hell yes she should let you see it shes being an A()()hole there was no point in telling you
2006-11-26 18:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by so delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋