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I had been with this guy for 3 yrs and only one time as he taken me out in all those 3 yrs. I love him, but it's getting old. He never buys me flower, never takes me to the movies, or even a walk . Nothing. I asked him about it, He says he doesn't have the time. I've broken up with him many many times, but he keeps coming back. I even moved. But he keeps telling me he still wants to be with me. So I tell him to take me out, he keeps telling me that if he had time to do that he would. He's a sweet man, non abusive in anyway. Just not very thoughtful when it comes to taking his girlfriend out. Should I find someone else, I am 42 and am tired of this game. I want to settle down.

2006-11-26 10:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by cnacyn 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

If you want to be taken out, given flowers and go for a walk, yes, find someone else.

2006-11-26 10:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sweetie, you've put up with this for three years! if he's only taken you out once in all that time, he's not going to change. he may be a nice guy and all, but it sounds like he doesn't have time for you. I think it's time to move on. you deserve better than this. if you stay with this man, you're going to continue to be in the same shape you're in now, lonely and taken for granted. there are good men out there who would treat you the way you deserve to be treated, but you're never going to meet any of them if you keep waiting on this guy to change. you are a wonderful person to have stayed this long. but now you need to be good to yourself and get out there and find the guy who deserves to have a girl like you in his life. trust me on this one!
I sincerely wish you the very best.

2006-11-26 19:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0 0

Find someone else.

This guy has no time for you. If he really wanted to be with you, he would be. You don't have any relationship unless he ACTS like a boyfriend - which he is not.

Break up with him and move on.

Good luck. :)

2006-11-26 18:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0 0

well it won't be getting any better if you marry him you have to decide can you live this way with him always. i can see already its bothering you . and you have told him plenty of times but he keeps having excuses.

I guess its time to make a decision

2006-11-26 19:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0 0

It sounds like he is using you...maybe for sex. I would kick him out of my life if I were U.

2006-11-26 18:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mesa 2 · 0 0

when girls wear boyshorts over thongs its sexy because you rip off the boyshorts and then take the thong off with your teeth try this on him

2006-11-26 18:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 1 · 0 1

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