If people say this all the time, shouldn't I be confident?
2006-11-26 10:40:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence is something you have to have in yourself. A lot of pretty girls have low self esteem and don't really see how beautiful they are. Just believe you are special and except yourself as you are. Be proud of who you are. If you can't love yourself, you can't expect anyone else too. You need to do some deep thinking.
2006-11-26 10:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by HOVO 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confidence has nothing to do with looks. A strong, healthy sence of self and the ability to speak your mind without fear..."that's gorgous!" If you're young, that will come with time. I grew up with people telling me the same thing and I was never without a date. I found as I've gotten older, the less I put stock into what other people say and I truely believe that I'm one of the sexiest people I know! hehe ; )
2006-11-26 18:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you dont believe it, your not comforatable with yourself. You should try to be more confident. I had the same problem, but I just started to accept peoples complements and just started thinking good of myself. I hope that this helps, and good luck! Remember your only as pretty as whats on the inside.
2006-11-26 18:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you don't believe it yourself.... you have to believe your pretty in order to see what people are seeing.... now this sounds really stupid but it does work... go over to a mirror and look at yourself and say im beautiful. do that every day and before you know it a day will come when you actually see that for yourself and until then fake it until you make it as the saying goes... think your beautiful until you know it- you'll be happy once you do this..
2006-11-26 18:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just because other people think you are hot and stuff that doesn't mean that you think the same way about yourself. A lot of really pretty girls have a lot of self esteem problems and they never think they are pretty
2006-11-26 18:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have low self confidence. A lot of people feel better after recieving a compliment, but others don't. It depends on how you feel about your looks.
2006-11-26 18:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel the same. no that doen't mean u should be confident. u should be confident no matter how u look. but it means to me that i'm not full of myself like most pretty or great looking characters
2006-11-26 18:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you have a poor image of yourself it does not matter what people say --- ask yourself why do i feel like this?? then find answers to refute the image you have of yourself
learn to love yourself --- but not tooo much
once you do that the whole world opens up
2006-11-26 18:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it does mean you have low self confidence which most girls do these days unless you are a cheerleader or something like that
2006-11-26 18:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't believe it cause you've got a self steem problem. People wouldn't tell you if you weren't pretty
2006-11-26 18:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋