So I was out today with my parents and we stopped in this little old fashioned food market place by the side of the road, and the girl behind the counter was just too beautiful, like a model! Same age roughly, and she seemed just so sweet and nice. We kinda made eye contact a few times, just quickly but I think we were both aware of each other. What would be a good way to pursue her? Obviously I dont even know if she's single, and it would be a miracle if she was. I dont want to come across too fast or forward, but on the other hand I dont want to wait too long. And if I go and she's not there, what could I say to someone else working there to show interest? Any opinions? Thanks,
2006-11-26
10:27:01
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try talking to her
2006-11-26 10:29:01
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answer #1
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answered by winkts@sbcglobal.net 2
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Just say hi at first, you don't want to go too far on the first day. You should go in the next day and see if she is working if not, come back the next day... if she is then you should start a brief convosation. You should talk about the weather, If it is bad weather you should say something like "awful weather out there" If its good weather you should say "nice day isn't it?" She should respond if you say that. If she doesn't respond, give up. Look to see if she is wearing a wedding ring. if she is LEAVE (politely of course!) if not, keep talking and ask her if she has a boyfriend. if not, ask her out. If she is a nice girl she would give you a chance.
But if she says she would think about it--chances are she will not give you a chance. good luck.
2006-11-27 08:07:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Dude, You're inthe same place as me right now...
I like this girl at my school, but I've been kinda shy lately to ask her out. Don't be me, ask her out, do something interesting for a first date, for a first date, you could try doing something that shows what you like, a movie, paintballing, airsofting(hey worked for my last GF), mountain climbing, jetsking, the list goes on and on. ACT QUICKLY though
2006-11-26 11:21:25
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answered by elpimpinbob 2
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Be courageous. Ask her out next time you go through there. Just be forward and don't be embarrassed. Appear confident, even if you aren't. And if you get turned down, at least you tried. If she's that beautiful, you'll kill yourself to not at least try.
2006-11-26 10:32:25
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answered by sickblade 5
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go see her soon as it's your best hope that she's not seeing anyone yet. i would see her and simply tell her that i'd like to take her out for some old fashioned food on an old fashioned date, you have nothing to lose if you try, and a great chance if you don't
2006-11-26 10:30:32
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answered by heyrobo 6
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Hi,
At first, check her hands to see if she have any ring...
(on the good finger as well).
If she have rings, you can told her that she have nice rings. The lady will now what you are talking about :-))
She will say to you if she engaged or if it's just rings for fun...
More, after this first contact, you will found the words to speack, and I hope for you... her too...
Good luck young padawan lover
2006-11-27 10:54:59
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answered by @lex 3
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When you do drop by and she is there, just get to know her better. Ask about something she might be selling and then ask her fav color or something related to the item.....If she isn't there then just leave a note for some1 or ask another person what her name is and some things about her......... GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-26 10:30:15
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answered by v.ballerr <3 5
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lets put it together
step 1 find a girl
step 2 ?
step 3 the bed
impress her?
2006-11-26 10:29:06
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answered by Anonymous
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ummm just tell her that you noticed that she's really pretty and ask if she would like to go out with you on a saturday night...if she makes excuses she's either playing hard to get or has a bf already. so yeah...just be really nice and a gentleman
2006-11-26 10:30:20
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answered by Anonymous
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well u should keep going back there and see how she reacts to you,see if she flirts with u, then ask her for her number or if she wants to go out sometime
2006-11-26 10:30:20
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answered by Anonymous
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well if she is there then ask her if she's single or not!! and if she's not then ask someone if she's here and if not tell them 2 tell the girl u like that u were here!
2006-11-26 10:29:20
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answered by Anonymous
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