My gf and I took a 'time apart' for many reasons, but mostly because she said she needed to find herself & experience more (I was her first serious guy). She tried to kind of keep me on a string, staying in touch, telling me that she really loved me & knew we'd get back together,etc. Left me in a pretty confused state as I was unsure of whether to move on — she would never give me a straight answer. I told her honestly that I would have a hard time dealing with it if she got involved with other people. 4 months later we DID get back together — we both had missed each other and it looked like our relationship was back on track, then some of the details of her past came out; she had made out with people in bars and had sex with one of them, really lived it up. Thought I was OK with it but it bugs me more and more now. Never had to deal with this issue b4 in our relationship, I had complete faith and trust in her. Now I worry alot that she is fickle and that I'm not enough for her.
2006-11-22
09:37:48
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