i met a man on a business trip, and now i am crazy about him but hes married. he's coming to my work next week and i dont know what to do?
2006-11-22 09:42:53 · 23 answers · asked by gingerb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get yourself a single man
2006-11-22 09:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Come to grips that about 90% of the time the guy is just using you. The chances (as I was told by a professional once) are that he will not leave his wife and keep you on the side as long as possible.
2) You will hurt emotionally as a result, but it could take years for you to realize if he's willing enough to cheat on his wife, you can darn well know he'll cheat on you.
3) Hopefully this was a trick question and you made it up. Not many people are that foolish to ask such silly questions.
2006-11-22 09:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his wife is like me...and looks upon home wreckers in the same light as I do...just go and ask her what you should do. I'm sure she'll be only too happy to advise. I know what it's like to be the cheated on wife so unless you are a really A moral person...do the right thing and just be casually polite when he arrives... nothing more. You have no right to a relationship with him, and besides the other woman rarely becomes the little woman, just keep THAT in mind.
2006-11-22 09:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by chezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As somebody who has been in a dating with a married guy for over 4 years. it rather isn't any longer an uncomplicated street to shuttle and the ordinary advice is to run.. head for the hills. it rather is a lonely place. You miss holiday journeys and birthdays at the same time. you will get the day till now or the day after yet hardly "the" day. Evenings and weekends jointly as he's at homestead are many times no touch circumstances. (no longer for me, yet i recognize it happens for many). And if he has advised his spouse and is working on his marriage then you somewhat did the astonishing element to leave him to his alternatives. He can no longer "artwork on his marriage" jointly as he continues to be seeing you. that may not honest to anyone. once you're nonetheless working there, proceed to be cordial and expert. do no longer permit him drag you into own conversations. Have some strains waiting for whilst that occurs. Like, that's no longer suited, you made your determination. can we talk artwork please. i recognize it rather isn't any longer uncomplicated to end a dating once you artwork at the same time.. yet you in basic terms have 4 extra weeks and additionally you would be someplace else. For now.. talk you. guard you. consume, sleep, exercising, take heat baths. you could desire to heal from this too. you would be ok, you could flow on. Make YOU your precedence now.
2016-10-17 10:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by valda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like to be the wife of this married man. He is going to work trying to take care of his family and your trying to figure out how to ruin his life for your own pleasures......you should think of all sides of this whatever your calling it. If he didn't sleep with you when you both had the chance.....He probably isn't all that into you....To the left my dear....
2006-11-22 09:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy being hurt and always being second (or third) choice. Also, think of how you would feel if you were his wife, would you like it if he was cheating on you. Stay away, get as far away as possible. You don't know his history---you could be just a flavor of the month.
2006-11-22 09:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by luna42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet with him in a public place during day so that way you will have to go back to work instead of with him and chances of you migrating to the bathroom is slim. If possible bring another coworker or have a friend meet you there and make it seem unplanned.
2006-11-22 09:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not the guy, but I have been. I was a jerk to my wife to do what I did. Now both of them are hurt. No sex, no fun, nothing was worth the hurt that I caused. Tell him to go back to his wife. You go to one of these fancy dating services, they really work, and find someone really compatible with no baggage; both of you will be happier for it. Do whatever you have to to avoid the temptation. Take the high road. You know what the right thing to do is.
2006-11-22 09:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first think about whether or not your confusing lust with love. i think the mature decision would be to stay away from him. what good could come from being around him. do you really think your going to start a long term relationship thats going to end w/ you two being in love and being together forever and have the dream come true all start w/ you ruining a marriage?
just stay away, best choice
2006-11-22 09:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him being a married man is reason enough.
You might break up his family is another reason
You will end up regretting it is a third reason .
stay away from married man...otherwise someday someone is going to take your husband away from you and perhaps then you'll see why you should have stayed away.
2006-11-22 09:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of town!
Take the week off!
Or even .... find yourself a single man or aren't they exciting enough for you. Maybe you just like the thril of stealing another womans man!
2006-11-22 09:46:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋