he tells me he loves me and all but i dont know. he has a few girls that r friends. some of them has been his friend since like the 3rd grade. he is great. i love him but i dont like that he has girls that are friends.i have asked him to stop talking to them he said he will break all friendships 4 me and he has but he know i have friends that are guys but he hasnt said ne thing to me and that makes me feel bad now. he is 5-9 210 captain of the football track and hockey teams. he will go to college next year and he said he will pay my way to go with him. he has enuff money to support me 4 ever cause his family is rich he owns his own house and he is the best thing that has happened to me but idk wat to do cause he is every popular guy that is around girls like the cheerleaders
2006-11-22 09:18:48 · 12 answers · asked by *~krazi~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your writing a letter not a question and it appears to me that if you must ask that question your alot younger than In think. happy Old School
2006-11-22 09:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't count on his family money to be his money. I was once rich and cut off by family. He probably has girls for friends because he likes to flirt. If this is a problem it will only get worse it won't go away. If he gets rid of those friends he will make new once and probably twice as many. It's true I've seen it. Good luck.
2006-11-22 09:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop being insecure and maybe just hang out with him and his friends as well. Guys don't like jealous girls and making him stop talking to his friends is not right. You shouldn't have to put restrictions on a relationship. Sooner or later he might find someone who is willing to accept his friends and he may leave you. Try to accept it and not be so jealous. If you have guy friends why can't he have girlfriends too? It's only fair.
2006-11-22 09:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by a1980 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong of you to tell him to break off his friendships with girls. A good relationship depends on trust, he apparently trusts you, but you must not trust him. My best friends are girls, and I dont cheat, it is possible for a guy to have friends that are girls and not be messing around with them. Shame on you, hypocrite.
2006-11-22 09:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love him for him...but I can see where it's easy to be jealous. Try to invest more time in other things so all your attention isn't focused on him. It might be easier to be more accepting if you're out doing your own thing instead of always worrying about who he's with, what he's doing, etc...
You'll feel a lot calmer too.
2006-11-22 09:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what your priority is: Are you willing to be a rich Man's wife that looks the other way when her husband cheats on her because she wants to live the rich life?
I am a male and this is from a male perspective: MEN DONT HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS UNLESS THEY ARE BANGING THEM OR ARE TRYING TO BANG THEM. That my friend is the naked truth.
2006-11-22 09:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by clubpamper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to brak up with him if hes so amazing and everything going so good in your relationship but it is not fair for him to break all leads with female friends and you keep male friends it doesn't go like that but you should really talk to your boyfriend because jealously can ruin a relationship may b you need to build your self esteem
2006-11-22 09:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by hunni_b21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you have said it sounds like he cares about you alot... maybe his friends do bother you but just try and get past the fact that those people are going to hang around him because if he cares for you and if he really is "the best thing that has ever happened to you" then he is worth it!.. and if you care for him than you don't want him to have to abandon his friends just for you..
2006-11-22 09:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by ohhhhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not about your boy friend having friendship with girls, this all about insecurity and immaturity on your part,If you do not Have enough self confidence to believe in your value to him , then you do not expect him to stay with you. So you need to work on your self esteem and self confidence, and trust your boyfriend that what he says is absolutely true in his feelings for you.
2006-11-22 09:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETHEART LISTEN I TAKE IT THAT U ARE YOUNG MAYBE
BETWEEN THE AGE OF 17-23 I DON'T KNOW , WHAT U NEED TO DO IS GET YOUR EDUCATION AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP NOW . LET HIM
GO TO COLLEGE AND YOU DO THE SAME.BE SMART.
2006-11-22 09:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by SHARON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋