He is passive and submissive by nature and has friends who are more take charge types. So whenever they do anything, he always just sits back and lets them take charge.
The same goes for our relationship -- if we are to do anything at all, like even go on a simple date, I have to be the one to plan everything, because he is too passive and submissive to do anything.
The problem is, I am by nature also more passive and submissive. I would prefer for a relationship to be either BALANCED, or else to have the MAN be the more dominant one.
He always claims that I wear the pants in the relationship, that I am the dominant one. But I don't like it. I HATE being the dominant one, and if I AM the one who "wears the pants", it's because I've been forced into the role! If I didn't take charge once in a while, all we would ever do is sit in the house and watch TV.
Can this problem be resolved? Do you think he will ever grow up and be more of a man?
2006-10-26
16:51:13
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cajun m
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