My boyfriend insist on sleeping in the raw with no underwear on and I am starting to just get plain grossed out. He is not macho in any way. Actually is is about 70 lbs over weight and needs to wash with a wash cloth. He does not wash his hair good and does not use a wash cloth in the shower. He wants me to perform like he is a sexual master, and I just see him as filthy.
2006-10-26 17:03:05 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We started dating 4 yrs ago, and he is just really comfortable in the relationship. It did not start out this way, it has just gotten this way over a period of time. He is 12 yrs older than me and I feel like I am taking care of an old man. I practice excellent personal hygeine and expect it out of whoever I sleep with, but he just dont have it going on in that department.
2006-10-26 17:09:33 · update #1
OMG!
I think I just threw up in my mouth.
2006-10-26 17:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One good thing about the fact that he is your boyfriend is that you are not obligated to him. If you don't like something that is that major, you can always get out of the relationship. Anything that is a problem now, will be 100 times as bad if you were to marry. Trust me, I have been married only 2 years and the things that bothered me a little bit before has made me consider leaving him now.
But, I understand that you love the guy. Well, sit him down and have a real heart to heart. Tell him all that is on your mind in a loving way. Be willing to help him out in any way possible. If he refuses to change, please leave. Hygene is a major issue and you don't want to be know as "Stinky's Wife".
2006-10-26 17:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jaedyn=God has heard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn I'm overweight and sleep in the buff since I was on my own. Something about being alone in the house and naked that brings me back to nature but to gross my partner out by stinking and not washing right is plain nasty. Let him know how u feel be assertive not overbearing but tactful. He open his eyes if u really cares.
2006-10-26 17:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, why are you with him then? Sounds like you should be looking to find a guy that better fits your taste. Otherwise, especially for a girl, sleeping with no underwear is supposed to be healthy because it lets everything breathe. I mean if he was better about hygiene and was fit it wouldn't be a big deal that he was sleeping nude. You'd probably like him if that was the case.
2006-10-26 17:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I would say there is nothing wrong with this because our skin needs to breath, but in this case, I am absolutely disgusted!! He should b more hygienic for if no other reason than of respect for you. Have you approached him about his hygiene? Maybe he's like a broke down car, he just needs a little push.
2006-10-26 17:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Grad_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does any of this have to do with underwear? Tell him to get off his fat apple and spend some quality time with the soap and shampoo. It may hurt but if it were me I'd want to hear it from someone I loved rather than a co worker or something.
2006-10-26 17:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by E_Soup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Miss Unhappy ....now that is real Gross..I guess you need to go in there while he is in the shower and just wash him, I wouldn't let him sleep in my Bed...kick him out if he doesn't wash good...heck no....not good...girl why are you even with him....
2006-10-26 17:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called "going geronimo" being without underwear not the other stuff you describe! LOL I used to sleep that way many times mostly when sleeping with a honey!
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2006-10-26 17:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many people, men and woman, that don't wear anything at all to bed... that's their preferance... if you have so many problems with him, maybe the relationship isn't going to work out?? the only way i see it working out is if he's willing to change. i see this as the only way because you are being so strict... this isn't a bad thing, it is good things you want him to do (except the no sleeping naked, there is nothing wrong with that)...
I dono...
2006-10-26 17:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer placed on any underclothes under my pjs. you have a dazzling possibility of an infection through fact you're actually not giving your vagina time to "breathe". underclothes traps in moisture that's a breeding floor for some forms of bacteria. Your vagina often is warm sufficient to kill them yet wearing underclothes traps them in and close on your vagina and non-end exposure like that makes you have a dazzling possibility of having one. each and every gynecologist that i've got been to says you mustn't placed on underclothes to mattress.
2016-12-28 06:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not gross, I sleep that way. But the way you explained him, He needs to sleep fully dressed. That dude is sick.
Dump him if he grosses you out that bad!!!
2006-10-26 17:11:08 · answer #11 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋