Singles & Dating - 21 October 2006

Can any one out there help me.Known this guy as a friend for 6 months.He is one of the kindest hearted people ive ever met.We are just friends and are very close we keep in contact every day and he always initiates it.We have become v close,nothing physical.He is not gay,married or doesnt have anyone else.But i want more he says he is not in love and feels he should be.How we r friends only?He flirts with me ,So confusing.He was hurt badly in a relationship a few years ago & is still holding on.He cant close himself off .He says he is terrified of making a big mistake with me but he needs to sort out his head .Do you think i should give him time -as do care about him.When i said i couldnt be friends -he said so is this goodbye and was quite upset.But he has been quiet for last few days -do men go into thier caves when they cant cope.-will he figure it out and how long does it take.

2006-10-21 09:52:04 · 28 answers · asked by shakira 1

2006-10-21 09:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my b/f dad in prison due to cirumstance and my heart really goes out for him and his family. Coz he saying to me he going to miss both of his son brithday and the brith of his child and that everything left on the mum and he feel really uspet and hurt bout the whole situation. But i just dont know what to say or how to handle the situation. But what will be the best thing that i could do to at least make him a little bit happier?

2006-10-21 09:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1

i have most of my best answers in relationships but when it comes to my life i can't do wat i say i just can't. help!

2006-10-21 09:47:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

GIRLS I RECENTLY GOT ON THE DEPO SHOT BIRTH CONTROL METHOD, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS EJACULATING IN ME BUT I HAVE A FUNNY SMELL IN MY (U KNOW WHERE ) IS THIS NORMAL ???? PLEASE EXPLAIN NEVER HAPPEND BEFORE

2006-10-21 09:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

Is it heart when a guy loosing it's virginity?

2006-10-21 09:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by boosterspd 1

We broke-up just 16 days ago, and I know for a fact that he still loves me, deeply, and that he hasn't got anyone else, he just got tired of me being so jealous and my all-the-time fighting. After losing him I see all I'll miss, and I have made a commitment to change my ways.

He is coming tomorrow to my house, but he has told me that if I do anything to try to get him back, he'll leave my house and my life (even as a friend) forever!

So I want a way so tomorrow he'll agree to take me back, but a way that's subtle enough to work without him finding out what I want...
Also (even if it's the last time) I want to make love to him (it would be just the second time we do it), because the first time I was so nervous we drank wine and I had this major black-out and I don't remember anything! :(

Please, no insults

2006-10-21 09:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sunna 1

Why do some poeple on her give totally horrible answers when there's no need for it? Some don't read all of the question and give an answer based on one or two words. We're all here to help each other, does it have to be so cruel? I think 99% of people are absolutely fantastic and wonderful at helping people, but why is the minority like this?

2006-10-21 09:40:55 · 31 answers · asked by flumoxed 2

Okay i turned down this guy meanin gi didn't go out w/ him and uh he hates me i hav to pay peeps to turn in my homeowrk he makes me cry about it and i know i need to do something about this but wat? and i'm very nervous about talking to him and he glares at me if looks culd kill i'd be long time gone. help me!!!!

2006-10-21 09:40:31 · 13 answers · asked by hammie d 1

If so, can you tell me what procedures you took and how it turned out? Also, how far up from the tip is it supposed to be?

2006-10-21 09:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

but only had a few skills diddn't talk too much and was good in bed, but wasn't very good socially and a bit shy and didd'nt know how to dance would he still be desirable?

2006-10-21 09:40:06 · 27 answers · asked by S--slick 4

is it?

2006-10-21 09:39:35 · 18 answers · asked by Joho 7

i know he is a loser but sometimes i am sad that he didn't want to be with me even though i know he doesn't have his life on track. why do i sometimes feel jealous that she has him and not me even though my life is better without him and i'm much more productive? and he has a bad weed habit. is it ok to live with and share your life with a drug dealer? could she really have a catch?

2006-10-21 09:39:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have know each other for 5 years. We have gone on a few dates and kissed and fooled around a few times, but no sex. We live about an hour away from eachother. I feel that we have a special connection, should I tell her my feelings ? or will I scare her away. I have about a 80% chance that she feels similar. And how should I tell her ? Email, letter, in person ?

2006-10-21 09:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by Richard J 2

i cheated on my boyfriend while he was gone im not sure if i should tell him because he had broken up with me before and i really love him. i need some good advice plzzzz.

thanks bright eyes

2006-10-21 09:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 09:34:38 · 12 answers · asked by Star 4

The girl who works in my office like a guy. She says he is a loner but likes him. I know the guy. He does not have any friends and does not talk much. You think it is okay?

How many of you would like a guy like that?

2006-10-21 09:32:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

Something that doesn't involve sex.

2006-10-21 09:31:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is pretty and smart but has a b/f who hits her she always makes excuses for him why?? she calls me and told me that he hit her and i get mad that she wont leave so now she is mad at me damm why are people so so dumb and please dont say its love that isnt love i would just like some insight on this

2006-10-21 09:29:15 · 26 answers · asked by shasha 2

The mother of his child came to his house, he wasn't there and I was...All she wanted was for him to watch the baby for the weekend but I told her that he would be working full time this whole weekend and he couldn't. But after she left and he came home, for some reason the whole of idea of her coming over bothered me, because up until now I was under the impression that they ceased all communication and it was his mother who arranged visitations for him. The reality that there will always be another woman in our lives just hit me. I wanted to say something but it's the mother of his child...what do I do?

2006-10-21 09:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by Cathy 4

if a guy asks u if u want 2 go out does it mean going out on a date, hanging out, being boyfriend & girlfriend, or something else. i know it is a kinda stupid question, but i want 2 know for sure. can u pleaz tell me want it means?

2006-10-21 09:26:38 · 23 answers · asked by take.my.hand. 3

im slim, 5 ft 6, long dark hair, brown eyes and great fun. i live in the midlands area of the uk, so if you interested in meeting a nice honest girl leave me a message. i would really like to meet a kind, fun and honest guy. please dont waste my time if your not interested or married and i only like fun guys to no mister moody for me thx.

2006-10-21 09:25:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean nothing against any of the men on here but it seems like every guy I meet is so not understanding. Like first thing is first guys want to have a three sum. and have sex with the other girl but some how that isn't cheating. But if you were to have a three sum him and anouther guy and the guy got on you that is cheating. It makes no since if I saw my man banging some other chick I would be pissed. If I really cared about the guy. Now if he was just some **** buddy then who cares but my man oh hell no. I jsut don't get how something is fair for him and then females do the same thing and it wrong.

2006-10-21 09:24:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are in our twenties and have been dating for the past year and a half. He treats me well, and I love him very much. However, there's just something I can't put my finger on that makes me not want to be with him. I've tried to figure out what it is so I can fix it, but I can't. He's a great guy and deserves to be with someone amazing. I'm just not sure if I can give him all he deserves. Yet at the same time, I'd feel bad about ending something that's been so wonderful over a problem I can't even define. This is a really confusing situation for me (and one that's hard for me to convey in 1000 characters), but any help you can give would be very much appreciated.

2006-10-21 09:24:35 · 7 answers · asked by Lu 2

or only girls like cuddling?

thanks.

2006-10-21 09:23:18 · 13 answers · asked by drxud 1

I love this man. We have a son together. But he continues to cheat and lie. Yet, I continue to take him back. Why do men cheat? Why cant he just tell me that he doesnt want to be together? I have given him that option yet he says he does want me, what is going through men's heads when this is happening?

2006-10-21 09:17:59 · 33 answers · asked by Kryztiena M 1

2006-10-21 09:17:36 · 4 answers · asked by beboo55 1

2006-10-21 09:17:29 · 2 answers · asked by Isabella. 3

I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-21 09:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my 11 hour shift I make time to call my boyfriend at least once but he always tells me "there wasn't a moment to call you honey, work was busy" Would you be angry? How do I get him to show more interest? He just asked me to marry him sans ring but I still want him to show interest, he used to call 4 or 5 times a day

2006-10-21 09:15:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous