We have know each other for 5 years. We have gone on a few dates and kissed and fooled around a few times, but no sex. We live about an hour away from eachother. I feel that we have a special connection, should I tell her my feelings ? or will I scare her away. I have about a 80% chance that she feels similar. And how should I tell her ? Email, letter, in person ?
2006-10-21 09:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by Richard J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to do it face to face i no it may be hard but you will get best resaults that way
2006-10-21 09:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person is usually the best way to handle certain situations, especially if you feel you have an 80% chance. However, doing it in person also has it's cons. She might feel that you put her on the spot. For example, say she feels the same way about you but doesn't really want to establish a real relationship she just wants to keep things the way they are. It would be pretty hard to tell you that after you just poured out your feelings and she might feel forced to say what you want to hear which leads to a "fake" relationship. Try a letter. That way she has some time to think about things and give you her honest feedback. Hope I was helpful!!
2006-10-21 16:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by kianni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Richard, dear, honesty is the best policy. She is lucky to have a guy who likes her as much as you do. Find out first if she is seeing any one else. No need to make a tough situation, an embarassing one. ALWAYS in person. You should be able to see how she reacts to your questions and your news. I wish you the very best and hope this is the one you are looking for. Loves. Nana
2006-10-21 16:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck this sneaky sh*t. Go to her in person(not after sex cuz she'll think that's why u say it) and tell her how you feel. The worst that can happen is that she doesn't feel the same. But I don't think i'm the only one that would say, the rewards would definitely outweigh the risk...
Bottom Line.. Go for it!!
2006-10-21 16:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always good to be with someone and just go somewhere. its also tough having a relationship that is far away. just be honest and true to her! she probably wishes that you would ask her what she likes dislikes in a person. give her compliments-and always say things that you like about her! never say you are soul mates and are destined to make it happen. she already knows you are cool..if you two are still good friends..there are possibilities!!
2006-10-21 16:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by skimad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person on a date, and after sex.
2006-10-21 16:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in person, cause over the phone is way cheesy and email shows you have bad confrontation skills. you have to be able to talk to her in person, why not start hard and get easier?
2006-10-21 16:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by kecr101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her over the phone so you would be able to read her reaction in her voice. See how she feels about you 1st.
2006-10-21 16:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if you don't tell her it will haunt you for the rest of your life. I think it would be best to do it in person. If you never go you never know.
2006-10-21 16:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by variant_456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are relli the only person that can decide weather to tell her or not...
if u do ..plez call or in person,...a letter is dumb..(no offence) and email is relli acward
2006-10-21 16:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋