but only had a few skills diddn't talk too much and was good in bed, but wasn't very good socially and a bit shy and didd'nt know how to dance would he still be desirable?
2006-10-21 09:40:06 · 27 answers · asked by S--slick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes! that is my husband, give or take a few qualities. :) he is great in bed but a people hater... and a skeptic, outgoing with his friends but bad with new people. he is kind of anti-social and a watcher... he doesn't dance... wants to learn but is also a procrastinator, so hasn't yet.
anyway, he is still a great lover, and completes ME so even if others think he is lacking in qualities i know that we are good together. and i think in a partnership i need to take responsibility to help him achieve his goals, for instance: i could sign us up for a dance class to take together, and through that maybe he could learn to branch out and be more social..
i don't know! hope this helps!
2006-10-21 09:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he wouldn't be desirable to me,
What is desirable to me in a man is intelligence, a sense of humour, courage in his convictions, the ability to hold a challenging, open minded conversation, honour and integrity, respect and loyalty.
If any skills are lacking (ie social skills) if he has the will to learn, then these can always be taught and shaped and as for bedroom abilities, this again, is something that can be practiced and improved - whilst having a lot of fun along the way.
A sexy body and a fair face and a hottie in the bedroom is all well and good if you are seeking nothing more than a good time, however if you are seeking a life mate, best friend and companion, then those attributes might not even rank in your top ten.
Just my opinion.....8-)
2006-10-21 11:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had something that drew him to you besides his action in bed unless, you just bed every hard bodied guy you meet. Seems like a great guy to have as a husband. He will come home after work, won't try to talk up other women for dates, will watch TV without talking through the whole thing.Desirable? Absolutely!
2006-10-21 09:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few skills? Doesn't talk much? Not very good socially? Doesn't know how to dance?!!! That sounds just like my cat! So would I go to bed with my cat? Hell no!
2006-10-21 09:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to learn and he loves me then he is worth being patient for. Looks and beauty are in the eyes of the beholder. He has the moves in the bedroom so show him the way on the dance floor!
2006-10-21 09:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define desirability?
Its up to you to decide
Is desire is only the shallow pursuit of sexual contact
Or is it more so a balance between the emotional, intellectual and sexual aspects of an individual
Perhaps you should think about what exactly it is you want
2006-10-21 09:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by erature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I'm all about personality. When the looks fade, all you have left is the person. If they aren't kind, sociable and fun, what's the point? Looks aren't important, brains and character are.
2006-10-21 09:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he'd be desirable...but not for long. He may be useful when it comes to a good workout, but when that's all said and done, what's left? Go ahead, have some fun but let's keep it in perspective. Boyfriend material...no way!!! And please ladies...let's keep in mind, YOU CANNOT CHANGE A PERSON, they are who and what they are...not who you want them to be.
2006-10-21 10:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by s019451 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The physical stuff would get old fast...I like a man who can hold his own in a conversation, can be witty, etc. So for me, nah - I'd pass.
2006-10-21 09:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him out girl,You gotta teach them sometimes,take control, before someone else snatches him and makes it happend.if hes cute and sexy I could handle the rest.
2006-10-21 09:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋