I mean nothing against any of the men on here but it seems like every guy I meet is so not understanding. Like first thing is first guys want to have a three sum. and have sex with the other girl but some how that isn't cheating. But if you were to have a three sum him and anouther guy and the guy got on you that is cheating. It makes no since if I saw my man banging some other chick I would be pissed. If I really cared about the guy. Now if he was just some **** buddy then who cares but my man oh hell no. I jsut don't get how something is fair for him and then females do the same thing and it wrong.
2006-10-21 09:24:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God I love you! :) I proposed a three some to my bf, but he said"I'm not letting some guy **** my gf. I can handle you myself." But he said If I wanted another girl, it would be okay. WTF.
2006-10-21 09:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Promiscuity in a man is a sign of high quality. The more women he has sex with, the better his chances of passing on his genes to the next generation. Few men are able to be promiscuous as women will only allow it from a high quality man.
Promiscuity in a woman is a sign of low quality. The more men she has sex with, the lower the chance that a man will love her and want to stay with her, because, in order to have multiple partners, none of them can be long term committments. Plus a man, if he discovers you are pregnant with a different man's child, no longer has any reason to stay with you. A low quality woman doesn't have anything to offer a man and has no way to keep him around. So, she sleeps with many men, hoping to get lucky and find one that will stay. If she is really low quality, she trades sex for resources to just stay alive.
What is so hard to understand about this? Every man wants to be a stud and every woman is terrified of being labeled a slut. This is universal among all cultures and all times in history. The only difference is, today, a woman who is labeled a slut only lives a ****** up life or experiences shame. Prior to the modern age, it was a death sentence as you couldn't survive if no man would have you. Also, in prior ages, a man had to REALLY be an alpha male to get away with promiscuity because if he got sex off another man's woman, he would be killed.
Think about it babe.
2006-10-21 09:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are called fantasies
and not all of us want to have a three some.
A three some is something you both should agree on
and I will tell you right now
99.9% of males will not want another man to be the 3rd person
We want to be the only male in the room screwing 2 girls
that's why its a fantasy.
2006-10-21 09:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY, because men are always right about these things!
A man is sensitive and easily affronted by the sight of his girl doing things to another guy in a 3-some; however, he is turned on by the sight of himself doing things to the other chick in a 3-some. So, don't piss-off your man! Do the right thing!
[Haven't you learned anything, by now???]
Thank you, come again!
2006-10-21 09:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Problem solved. Make out with just the girl and that will shut him up, then ask him if that was cheating? He sounds like a sex hound and I wouldn't put up with a guy like that, but that is you and not me....
2006-10-21 09:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two thoughts
one, sometimes guys think out loud, and they forget to filter their male crap. which wouldn't be in his head anyway if he had a filter
two, guys can get fooled into thinking they're something they not.
he thinks he's an excellent lover because you let him go in, therefore it's his duty to share himself with other women. naturally, since you have a high opinion of him you will wish to be part of it.
2006-10-21 10:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because most men are dogs!!!! and if he want it to be a three sum it would have to be my way, him another guy and myself take it are leave it, don't let him dog you! you dog him ! he may think he's the king but you my Dear are the Queen.
2006-10-21 09:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are meeting the wrong men.
2006-10-21 09:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will happily share u with a guy in a threesome if u do the same for me with a girl. Can I call u?
2006-10-21 09:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by I Am He As U R He As U R Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are just like that.
2006-10-21 09:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋