We broke-up just 16 days ago, and I know for a fact that he still loves me, deeply, and that he hasn't got anyone else, he just got tired of me being so jealous and my all-the-time fighting. After losing him I see all I'll miss, and I have made a commitment to change my ways.
He is coming tomorrow to my house, but he has told me that if I do anything to try to get him back, he'll leave my house and my life (even as a friend) forever!
So I want a way so tomorrow he'll agree to take me back, but a way that's subtle enough to work without him finding out what I want...
Also (even if it's the last time) I want to make love to him (it would be just the second time we do it), because the first time I was so nervous we drank wine and I had this major black-out and I don't remember anything! :(
Please, no insults
2006-10-21 09:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by Sunna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he doesn't flirt in front of me with other girls, is that I even am jealous of my friends.
We are very compatible, very alike...
We have broken-up and got back together before.
Saying sorry won't work, already try that.
I need ideas like: a romantic movie, playing twister, I just have 5 hours tomorrow, and he's coming to get my cellphone so I can get it re-activated
2006-10-21 09:58:59 · update #1
Now you can jump start!helps cleanse your body of toxins in just a few moments of saying " welcome back".Smile while leaning in his eyes.Don't be shy! or shed the tears!make a chicken soup for his soul not a wine!
2006-10-21 09:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by precede2005 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend: You must analyze the situation and the relationship for a moment. I know that you want him but, are you compatible? Opposites do not attract. Paula Adhdul is full of it. Just look at her series of marriages. Think for a moment whether your ex and you have the same point of view, like the same types of foods, dress the same or not, and handle money likewise. If the answer is no, then he is not the one for you. Being jealous is not wrong if you are not overdoing it. If he loves to flirt with others, specially in front of you, then you need to dump him from you love list and move on. Besides, you sound way too young to waste your time on a boyfriend anyway. It is best to concentrate on education and obtaining a job that pays well. The best man for you will be one you meet climbing the ladder success. After all, where do you want to live--the ghetto?
Mr. M on "advice needed."
2006-10-21 16:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him drunk duhhh and place an engagement ring on finger!!!
lol
just be very subtle and just tell him everything, i mean if he said he doesnt want you to make a pass at him , where is he now nowhere. And besides why would he come to your house in the first place. Just tell him how you are sorry and how you completely feel about him. Once he gets in your house tell him to go sit down in the living room and lock the door ALL LOCKS YOU HAVE ON THE DOR SHOULD BE LOCKED. sit next to him and slowly talk to him so thiis way he might feel the same, if or when he tries to escape fumbling with all the locks then just cry and say something that will make him feel bad about lleaving you and your lif for good.
2006-10-21 17:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Banstaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could apologise when he gets there and explain all that you realised but he doesn't sound like thats what he wants to do right now. I think you should just have him over and have a good time in each others company and not fight. If you guys have a good time and he sees you didnt fight he will likely reconsider being with you. Dont talk about getting back together it only pushes people further away. Just let things be and if it is meant to be it will.
2006-10-21 16:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, you r in a world of hurt. you think that you are going to get him back, well even if you do get him back you have a jealous problem and the fighting thing is maybe the one out of the two things that you can change. You want him back but I can tell what is going to happen he is going to be gone and it will be your fault, because you r only thinking what is good for you and no one else.
2006-10-21 17:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its a little to early for u to get back together. let him feel comfortable around you. and if hes going to your house for no reason than he is desperate for you. and if hes threating you dont go for him, its kinda stupid to go out with a guy who doesnt respect you. and im not trying to insult you.
2006-10-21 16:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal problem and only you know this man. No one can answer this question for you. If you want him back so badly you should be able to think of something to get him back on side........and honestly, if you can't, then you really don't deserve him anyway. I know you won't like my answer but I'm telling it like it is and I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say to you.
I'm not here for the points............just want to help.
2006-10-21 16:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Move on and leave him alone, he's a friend now deal with it. Good Luck
2006-10-21 16:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should consider it a lesson learned, save your dignity and move on.
2006-10-21 16:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok...say sorry
2006-10-21 16:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋