Classic question, I know, but it has some twists. She said this after I moved to another city, stating that an "exclusive" long distance relationship would be too hard. Doesn't want to cut it off, just give it distance. Ok, I can live with that. Lots of people I can see in my new city, but...then she gets sick. Endometriosis. Threatens her ability to have kids, hurts, makes her tired all the time. She needs me, she says. She wants me to support her unconditionally. So I try to, knowing that she is considering other guys, dating, etc. I drive back 1,000 miles every other weekend to be with her, but I sleep on the couch and there is little or no physical intimacy, as there was before. I'd like to "move on" if she's not serious about a LT relationship, because I am ready. I don't know how serious she is and right now, she's too caught up in her illness to give it much energy. Help.
2006-10-06
17:35:10
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matt c
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