under these circumstances......
- his best friends makes you feel great to be around him
- Always makes you laugh
- been through alot
- Is kinda your close friend 2
- tell each other everything
- You don't know 4 sure if his best friend like you more than a friend
- Would you consider him as more than a friend?
- You might actually be in love with him??????
Iv been throwing this question around in my head... SOOOO confused and im freakin out here ppl help me... Thanks ♥ Ush
2006-10-06 18:09:07 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ Ush ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try your best not to do it. cause you have already lost one, you don't want to lose one of your best friends just to have a fling cause you feel secure with him. you just went through something in a relationship that he has all the details of, that is a rocky situation!!!! just remain friends for at least another 6 months if its true it will hold up
2006-10-06 18:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by charleslee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will your friend be upset? Then DO NOT DO IT.
Now, here are some things to ponder. How long have they been broken up? Has she found a new guy? Is she REALLY over her ex? Before you even go after your friends ex, you need to sit down and tell her that you like her ex-bf. Be honest, and if she asks you not to then dont. Your friend is more important than a guy, you can always remain friends with him.
2006-10-06 18:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fall in love with him, in brief, because the way you described the way how you feel to him, as saying, action speaks louder than word. Why is there is a problem if you fall inolve with him? As you said that your ex's bestfriend means no more mutual relationship with the bf, so you are free to fall inlove with that ex bf's best friend if he is available to you and likes you in return..Well, do cacth his attention, show him a sign that you like him or be flirt with him.. Good Luck..
2006-10-06 18:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not under all of those circumstances, but yes, I have dated my ex's best friend and it's not completely wrong. My ex had his best friend break up with me over the phone. He was there for me when I was hurting. He's funny and sensitive. It's not wrong to fall for someone, even when they're associated with your past.
2006-10-06 18:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no law that says you can't. However if you really (and I mean REALLY) value your friendship with this ex, and your not sure how he'll react, it's probably not the best idea. But if you and your ex are cool, and I mean truly cool, he will understand. Besides, why should you have to suffer for going out with one before the other?
2006-10-06 18:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by yoyogirl526 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have to read the circumstances. Here is a GREAT rule to date by and it will save you lots of drama:
Never date your ex's friends and never date your friends ex's.
2006-10-06 18:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about all aspects of this, If he can't be loyal to his guy friend how do you expect him to be loyal to you as a girlfriend? But if you really feel that there is a connection and something you really want to try for, i would say go for it. You never know about anything until you try and see.
2006-10-06 18:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was a girl probably yes but it might cause a conflict with the ex
2006-10-06 18:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by A train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. Because if the realationship doesn't work out the friendship will never be the same. Also, that would also, make the ex pissed off.
2006-10-06 18:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by justbetweenus_us 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's on my never do list.it can cause a lot of problems between your ex and his friend what your asking in a weired way is your having your best friends left overs
2006-10-06 18:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋