Ok i met this guy about three weeks ago and really like him! and i was thinking about asking him out but only one problem......hes my brothers friend. and if i ask him out i dont want him to fell weird around me! what should i do?
2006-10-06 17:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have your brother talk to him. My son had a similiar problem. He is now dating his best friends sister and asked her family and her brother if it was ok first before he asked her out and they all approved. It's a beautiful relationship now. So, don't let this pass you by because you feel "weird". Go for it.
2006-10-06 17:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it a formal "date", make it something like going to a movie, miniature golf, car races or something like that as a group; then you'll be able to get to know each other for real, because you won't have the pressure of a "date".... Let it evolve either as a friend or like another brother, but at least you'll get a better glimpse of who each other is and have fun at the same time.
2006-10-07 00:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your brother, whether he is okay with you or not. For me, you need to hear from your brother first before you ask him out, because your brother surely know this guy more than you.
If he says it's ok, then ask him out. If not, ask him why you can't go with out his friend, and take that answer as a consideration whether that guy worthed to asked out
2006-10-07 00:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pastoer_return 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him....BUT there is an unwritten rule we guys have about "you dont date your freinds sister". If you ask him, it does change the rule in some guys minds. It will most likely end up being the brothers call if he accepts or not
2006-10-07 00:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by cwxmas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can ask your brother what he thinks of you so if hes already dating someone or his tastes are different you won't need to get embarrassed.
2006-10-07 00:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he'll ask you out. he knows how tyo get a hold of you. (through your brother) but this guy should coem with a warning label. both of your relationship with yoru brother should be more important than your relationship wth this guy. evaluate what makes him worth dating. leave your brother out of it.
2006-10-07 00:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm its kinda iffy,see i dated my brothers friend and i was so hooked on him and flirted with all the time til he asked me out and then it did feel werid cuz how was i too know if him n my bro talked about our realtionship and then my bro would be involved it was a lil too close for comfort for me.and needless to say me and my bros friend split.but maybe it was jus my luck.but jus becareful
2006-10-07 00:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Preschool diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and ask him out ... to hell with the consequences.
2006-10-07 00:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him..
2006-10-07 00:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋