I went bowling with her once and I chatted with her on messenger, but I accidently sayed some things I now realize were stupid. It's like I don't even exist to her anymore. But I know she is my true love and I really don't know what to do, but I have to make her love me!! Someone please help!!
2006-10-06 18:08:00 · 10 answers · asked by guitarfreakajg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me just add I haven't talked to her in like 4 months.
2006-10-06 18:12:14 · update #1
What did you say? Tell her you feel like an idiot for even saying those things. Ask if you can earn her respect back again? If she says no, then you'll have to move on.
If she says yes, take it slow and start from the beginning. Get to know her some more, and learn what you can and cannot say to her.
2006-10-06 18:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ensue to experience a similar way you do approximately somebody. yet another lady additionally. From my journey, on your case, it sounds like she basically thinks of you as a chum at this element - basically because of the fact she isn't shy or withdrawn around you and is keen to proportion plenty undesirable in her existence with you. this is worse if she have been to love you back - then what? All you're able to do is compliment her in a benign way and build upon your compliments. i'm on the element the place I actively steer clear of my "love" basically because of the fact this is too extreme. i can not undergo to work out her face. basically questioning of her provides me that feeling in the pit of my abdomen. My "love" is so candy and alluring. I do tell her how i've got faith when I get a brilliant gamble, yet no longer in a manner that could make her scared or experience uncomfortable. My "love" acts so rather shy around me, yet she isn't shy, so it makes me have faith the sensation is mutual. After 10 months the emotions have larger, yet i'm attempting to no longer flow there along with her.....
2016-10-18 23:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning, until you know her really well, you need to be careful what you say. Some things are controversial, and people have their own personal boundaries. If she won't even talk to you, then there's nothing you can do except maybe wait a few months and try again, with a sincere apology and a promise never to do it again.
2006-10-06 18:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a hint - as much as you may want to, you can never make anyone love you. and it sounds like you haven't actually spent a whole lot of time with her yet so i don't really think you can say she's your true love. it takes a lot more than bowling and talking online with her a few times before you can figure out if she really is your true love.
2006-10-06 18:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by savexmyxmemory 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone love you. They either do or they don"t. The only thing you can do is try to find a way to talk to her and let her see that you do exhist. Don't push it though, it could backfire on you big time. Take your time and let her see the person you really are. Good luck.
2006-10-06 18:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you cant make a girl fall in love w/ you.. sorry it doesnt work that way.....your probably moving 2 fast i mean u barely know her 4 real....Your moving wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy 2 fast ♥ Ush
2006-10-06 18:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Ush ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already lost her. If you persist you run down that ugly road called stalking. You've made a mistake, and now you can't deal with it. Learn from your mistakes and don't do it again, with the next girl. This one is history.
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2006-10-06 18:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LIKE HER THEN LET HER KNOW HOW YOU
REALLY FEEL, AND GO FROM THERE, WE ALL MAKE AND'
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HER THAT REALLY ALL YOU CAN DO. IF NOT THEN IT
TIME TO MOVE ON.
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