My ex bf was sweet & caring but he was the one who ended our short relationship. But after he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn and he even invited me to his b-day which was at a club. I went w/ a friend, it was so awkward. He kept coming up to me to talk but I didn't really feel like talking to him, so it seemed like I kinda ignored him. His friend kinda liked me he followed me around and asked lots of questions, my ex got jealous & pushed his friend. Neways, after his b-day he stopped saying hi to me on msn. After 2 months of not talking one day he said hi to me on msn. he thanked me for going to his b-day (too late, I know) and he even said "I didn't mean to ignore you, sorry" then I said to him "its ok, I came so u would know that there's no hard feelings & I thought it was a good way to say bye to u & finally close the book" OK why did he invite me to his b-day? AND why did he apologize when I ignored him?
2006-10-06 18:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, we had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, so don't say he invited me to "get booty" cuz he knows he ain't getting any from me!!
Also, we haven't talked to each other on msn anymore, it's been months since we talked.
2006-10-06 18:14:42 · update #1
He probably invited you to his b-day cuz he wanted all the people he thought were significant in his life to be there and not because he wanted to get back together. He must have still had some feelings for you to care that his bud was giving you so much attention. He probably felt rejected when you didn't make an effort to be all thrilled that he talked to you so much at the party, so to save face he has convinced himself HE ignored YOU. His ego was threatened! What you said to him on msn was perfect!! Be cool and let him make any future moves and don't be any more than a friend to him on msn. Don't chat long, leave him wanting more if you are still interested in him.
2006-10-06 18:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know its like ur mind plays games with you.........it happens with evrybdy...u do smthng then u hav second thots abt it.and regret doing it.u feel u culd hav done smthng else smthng better..u said u had an innocent relationship.somthng pure devoid of much physical contact u wre lucky to hav smthng lik this and he too . maybe after he broke up with you he realised the fact and he still used to love you which is why he thrashed his friend for you when he tried to talk to you.............but then maybe his ego got the better of him and and he culd never apologise to you thnking that u wuld either never forgiv him or it wuld hurt his pride..maybe it was both of u who made the mistake.he in leaving you and you in ignoring him but then both of never really tried to make up with each other......nyways still i call you lucky for having such a sweet and innocent relationship
best of luck
2006-10-07 01:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by taureanboy90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying has always true you don't miss it till its gone. It seem like he is going through something so for your own good learn from the first time and ignore him
2006-10-07 01:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by charleslee s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, sweetie, this one's on the house. He broke it off because he knew he wasn't going to get laid. The party was too see if you would come and boost his own ego. Strike three.
2006-10-07 01:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he wanted more from the relasionship. maybe he was attracted to someone else and thats why he dumped you. but seeing you with another boy was too much for him. thats why he left.but now he has got over it and just wants to be laid, that why he is bothering you. this guy is too much. he wont have you but also wont let anyone have you too. get far away from this loser.
2006-10-07 01:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I gotta say is this. Sounds like he is hiding something from you. Anyway he is confused about something. He probably isn't worth pursuing, but if you gotta know whats up then ask his friends. Thanks and good luck, J
2006-10-07 01:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either still hurt or wants u back and is trying to find ways to have u around
2006-10-07 01:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is all over. Move on to your next bf.
2006-10-07 01:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was trying to be friends with you still but it to weird for him.
2006-10-07 01:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because he dont not love you anymore. accept the fact that he dont love you and move on, grow up.
2006-10-07 01:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Aka. ngerkday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋