Singles & Dating - 5 October 2006

I started hanging out with this girl in like March. Like some light making out and kissing and just being with each other etc. I liked her alot, I wanted to be really dating her. Then I moved away from like May to August. We talked on the phone a couple times a week, but we only really saw each other like 4 times the whole summer.

Once during the summer I was drunk at this party. One thing led to another with this girl and we started talking about sexual stuff. I'm a virgin so yeah I was curious and I kept asking questions. But I think she thought I was trying to turn her on. Pretty soon our conversation turned into some pretty intense sexual inuendos and some quite personal comments. Then in my drunkenness I realized what she had in mind. I left.

Now we date for real,I feel bad because I was really quite enjoying talking about sex. I feel like its borderline cheating on a girl i was borderline dating so I don't even have to tell her or feel bad about it. But I suddenly do

2006-10-05 15:02:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sean H 2

My girlfriend told me I'm boring tonight-she said I'm always "bleh". What I do to change her opinion of me?

2006-10-05 15:01:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

especially in america?

2006-10-05 15:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 15:00:14 · 6 answers · asked by Marie 3

does it turn you off when a guy says chivalry is dead?

2006-10-05 14:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes ones he was dating other times just ones he fooled around with and other times just friends. it's just so annoying. and like for example he can hear a song and say it reminds him of someone or something and it's so annoying.

2006-10-05 14:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by cupcake 1

I've been dating this man for 3 years. He's became my closest friend. We live almost 4 hours away from each other and weekly I take the trip to visit him on my days off. He splits the cost of the expense as he owns a diesel and my car gets better mpg. We've been doing this for over 2 years now. I get so tired of the drives yet he says he isn't ready to commit. We've broken up a few times and just when I get to the point to start to date, we get back together and try again. He says he loves me but not in the same aspect that I love him. He's my closest friend, lover and companion in life but he's not willing to make the commitment. He had a very bad divorce 8 years ago and says he is stuck in his ways and doesn't want it to go bad. He seems to think once you get married everything changes. We are both in our 40's. I need him more in my life than off and on and I've expressed that to him. But he refuses anything more than what we have. How long should I wait?

2006-10-05 14:58:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

someone comes along and temp's fate-not just about sex-but your entire being, making you rethink..just maybe your with the wrong person?

2006-10-05 14:58:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend recently broke up with me and i feel like crap which i dont understand because we didn't even go out for a week and i hadn't known him that long before that... So why am I feeling this way?? He told me that his dad made him break up with me and he still really likes me but I'm not sure if I believe him. My friends said that everytime they saw him he looked miserable... but everytime i see him he's as happy as can be... He doesn't talk to me anymore and I really miss him. What do I do? And please do not say pick up the phone and call him. I've already told him how much he hurt me. Also, please do not say "just forget about him" or "find another guy"... I've already tried both of those and the only guy I want is him...
Please help me.

2006-10-05 14:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by sweetsam_goindumb 1

I am seriously crushing on a guy who is 13 years younger than me! Stella wants her groove back, but it just feels so weird!

2006-10-05 14:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by bugnscout 4

Generally speaking, do guys like girls who remain aloof, or are they more likely to go after a girl who smiles and shows she's interested?

2006-10-05 14:54:49 · 25 answers · asked by the_divine.miss_emerald 1

im 17, and the guy i like is 20, i know he likes me and i think he knows i like him because we flirt like crazy my mom notices and so does my best friend, i dont think that our age is a big deal or anything but my friend said that he might not come forward because of the fact that he's on college and im in high school, we have a turnoment for tennis tomorrow, and both him and i are going to be there all day - should i tell him how i feel? or should i let him say something [ if he ever does ], another thing, ive never had a boyfriend before, ive never been asked out, or anything so this is a new experiance for me & i need some helpppp lol [ and no -.- im not ugly lol ] thanks :)

2006-10-05 14:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well theres this guy in my french class and hes really funny....i've been thinking about him for a days now and i really want to try to get his screenname or # or ask him to go do something with me (like the movies) but i'm so nervous and i have no idea what to say or how to ask.....

2006-10-05 14:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by lonely_&confused20 2

ok, im gay, been datin this guy for 3 months, everything is great so far, no sex yet, this is not an issue., - just dating, we have a great connection, we are both motivated, responsible, hard working, happy people, content with ourselves alone and excited about what could come in the future.. however..,(he's loaded), he has and can have whatever he wants or needs,....he lives in mansion i live in a trailer at a campground.... since the day we met we talk every day (3x), see each other at least once a week... its getting intense slowly and profoundly, its great.... soooooo.....,what do i get him for a b-day gift,?

2006-10-05 14:52:33 · 2 answers · asked by chubbymullet 1

what do girls mean when they have their aim message as "I love my BIG"....what the hell does big mean

2006-10-05 14:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by J D 1

ok...this guy i like knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me and he likes someone else but he still acts like he does and he stares at me. do you think that he was lying? why would he lie if he knew i liked him? ugh i'm so confused please help!!!

2006-10-05 14:50:20 · 15 answers · asked by emilyy40193x3babe 2

Okay, this is how it goes. Me and Johnny (this dude in my algebra class) are like really cool with each other. I THINK i like him, but i think i am afraid to admit i do. I want to tell him that i like him, but i don't really want to ruin our friendship with each other. I am scared that we will not be friends any more and i really want to stay friends with him! I don't know if i should tell him or not! Should I? Because I had a dream last night that we were at his house making-out, and i woke up before we could go all the way. What should i tell him at school tomorrow? Because we trade hugs like everyday. I give him a hug on monday, and he'll give me one on tuesday, then i'll give him on the next day, and so on.. Should i tell him i feel this way? or should i wait a while and become closer friends. Because i am at a new school this year, and i've known him for less than 2 months, but i already feel like i REALLY like him... HELP ME PLEASE! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-05 14:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this kid in my art class thats always staring at me. He's kind of cute. He is in the eigth grade and i'm only in the seventh plus i an not the prettiest at all. He could do so much better but i'm confused.

2006-10-05 14:46:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

say he's chinese...would u do it?
date em'?

2006-10-05 14:45:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in highschool and my boyfriend (now ex) and I have been going out since may. i was really busy over the summer with work, ap classes and my family vacation. id call him everyday, but we never went anywhere. the day school came back he hung out more, but we arent in any classes togethr, so its hard to talk besides lunch. on the night of a football game, he invited me the next day to see a movie, but i sed i couldn't because i already made plans that morning with my family friend from napa valley. suddenly, he blows up, yells and thank god for my friend jeff, or he wouldve hit me. what did i do wrong? i dont mean to be busy, and i always call...now im pretty sure were broken up and he HATES me....

2006-10-05 14:43:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been broken up for 2 months now. He called my phone and left a voice message saying "You were on my mind, I know you probably dont want to talk to me, but I was calling to see how you are doing." What does that mean? He cheated on me that's why we broke up. I haven't called him in a month.

2006-10-05 14:43:30 · 17 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1

i went out for a year with this guy and our relationship was great, at the end we started to have problems so we decided to go our separate ways, about five months after that i started seeing this other guy who i am currently with, the raletionship is getting serious, he is even talking about marriage, but i think i still have feeling for my ex.. is this normal? will they disspear with time? should i ignore them or should i do something about it?

2006-10-05 14:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always go commando... not for thesake of people "looking" (because I don't let people "look") but because it feels better... my exboyfriend told me its hot when girls do (I didnt tell him I did O:) ) But, what does everyone think? My doctor says nothing bad can happen except an embaressing moment. :-)

2006-10-05 14:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-05 14:38:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend had a really really bad childhood. Everyone he ever loved failed him and let him down over and over. We've been together for a long time, and he is really scared hes just setting himself up for a fall. I want him to believe that im alway going to be here and i wont ever leave him, but he has built this wall around his heart and i can't get in. He trusts me 100% but hes afraid to really really love me because hes been hurt sooo much. Is this one of those things that only time can prove. Do i just need to ride it out, untill hes secure enough with me?

2006-10-05 14:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by Misty 2

which would you find more attractive, a guy who is really nice, charming, and romantic, but is not really funny or wacky and is kind of serious, or a guy who has a really good sense of humor and is fun, but is kind of rude and sarcastic at times and is not charming or romantic?

2006-10-05 14:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by hero0fdahouse 1

I just finished punching myself in the face. i don't see the girl io like at school very often,. so many opportunities of speaking to her are gone. no, i have never spoken to her. i hit myself b/c today was the perfect opportunity and i pussied out. in the only class we have together, our teacher gave us the last 5 minutes for talking or w/e. she was sitting by herself, and i was almost jumping out of my chair to talk to her, but i kept sitting back down and saying"in a few more seconds" but i never did. what do you think my problem is? why is it so hard for me to talk to her? this isn't the only opportunity i've had either.

2006-10-05 14:37:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some good deep thought questions for a girl to ask her boyfriend? can be romantic or about god life etc... anything that we can have a nice conversation about. serious answers only please.. (as much as i love reading the witty responses)

2006-10-05 14:35:27 · 11 answers · asked by לבי במזרח... 2

I shave mine and really want her to shave hers as it's pretty thick down there, when I asked her about her legs (for a hint) she says she doesn't shave, she sugars. I don't wanna piss her off, but I want her to shave her private parts (or at least a good trim) before I go anywhere near there, what is a good way to get this to happen?

2006-10-05 14:33:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex dated for 6 months and we were really close.... he had angermanagment issues and one day had an outbrurst and we broke up. he lives at the school we both go to (its a military bording school in florida, i dont live there but he does) and i get strange text messages and wierd IM's from other borders that sounds like they would be written frome him (ex. do you still love curtis, cause he would really like to know; id answer then they'd sign off) he also sends his friends to come and talk to me. i dated another guy because we have been broken up for 4 months but after the first week it didnt feel right so i ended the other relationship. should i just go talk to him?

2006-10-05 14:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous