I started hanging out with this girl in like March. Like some light making out and kissing and just being with each other etc. I liked her alot, I wanted to be really dating her. Then I moved away from like May to August. We talked on the phone a couple times a week, but we only really saw each other like 4 times the whole summer.
Once during the summer I was drunk at this party. One thing led to another with this girl and we started talking about sexual stuff. I'm a virgin so yeah I was curious and I kept asking questions. But I think she thought I was trying to turn her on. Pretty soon our conversation turned into some pretty intense sexual inuendos and some quite personal comments. Then in my drunkenness I realized what she had in mind. I left.
Now we date for real,I feel bad because I was really quite enjoying talking about sex. I feel like its borderline cheating on a girl i was borderline dating so I don't even have to tell her or feel bad about it. But I suddenly do
2006-10-05 15:02:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sean H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there isn't any reason to feel bad you weren't actually dating the girl you met in late march, if it would make you feel better tell her about it and hope she understands, But you really should just keep it to your self no harm was done you didn't sleep with the girl you just talked about it. I don't know how old you are but good for you for keeping your pants on and zipper closed. Good Luck
2006-10-05 15:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a "sticky girlfriend situation" if you don't want to be honest with the first girl and tell her. If it is sticky, it's because you are not willing (or brave) enough to "keep it real". The other girl has a right to know you are no longer as interested; would you want to believe a lie? would you rather be hurt by the truth? Wounds of liars take longer to heal than bruises from a true friend.
2006-10-05 15:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Don B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....just my opinion...you guys were not in a real relationship so I don't really think it is concidered cheating. I don't see any reason to bring it up, specially if your not ever gonna see this other girl again. You guys didn't DO anything sexual...just talked and you made the good choice to leave when you thought it would leave to more. (which is more than I can say for most guys I know) But I guess if it bothers you that bad you could always talk to her about it.
2006-10-05 15:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah dude since you guys never really did anything but make out you weren't really a couple because you didn't do things together to boost up your relationship.
so you shouldn't be too worried about it, it's just a slight moral guilt you have, but nothin to worry about, you may have a second shot with this other girl you met after you moved to where you are now.
2006-10-05 15:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to REread that to try to figure out what your problem is, what you think you did wrong. You didn't do anything at all. Plus you were technically single even if you had kissed the other girl. Be cool. You're fine. No reason for guilt.
2006-10-05 15:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by JenaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have any PHYSICAL contact with the girl at the party? If not, I'd chalk this one up to being stupid while drunk & learn a lesson-- just don't have a repeat!
2006-10-05 15:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it, you guys weren't together officially so no worries. Who knows maybe she was doin some of that too during the summer
2006-10-05 15:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe u feel bad b/c u really like her...if u really like her tell her ...i think she will understand u!!! Good Luck
2006-10-05 15:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were drunk and just talking so forget about it!
2006-10-05 15:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r being too hard on yourself. Let it go.
2006-10-05 15:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋