So my boyfriend recently broke up with me and i feel like crap which i dont understand because we didn't even go out for a week and i hadn't known him that long before that... So why am I feeling this way?? He told me that his dad made him break up with me and he still really likes me but I'm not sure if I believe him. My friends said that everytime they saw him he looked miserable... but everytime i see him he's as happy as can be... He doesn't talk to me anymore and I really miss him. What do I do? And please do not say pick up the phone and call him. I've already told him how much he hurt me. Also, please do not say "just forget about him" or "find another guy"... I've already tried both of those and the only guy I want is him...
Please help me.
2006-10-05 14:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by sweetsam_goindumb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a piece of paper and write all the good things about him on one side and all the bad things about him on the other side. When youre feeling bad about him read the good things and vice versa. This will allow you to deal with your feelings in a more level headed way.
2006-10-05 15:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to be the one to tell you this but if you are not willing to do any of the things you just mentioned (pick up the phone and call him, forgget about him) there really is not much else you can do. I am sorry for what is happening to you but for your own sak eat least try to move on. you will be happier
2006-10-05 15:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, you teenagers dont need to be worrying about this guy and that guy. If you go down that path you will only have many failed relationships and do things you regret later. If you are meant to be together then you will be when the time is right.
2006-10-05 15:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is using his dad as an excuse. Just move on or try to get away. Stay busy and I know it hurts, but your better off and don't call or try to contact him. You already found out the real truth
2006-10-05 15:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe try and go up and talk to him again, ask him why his dad made you two break up, and if he has a cruddy excuse you'll know he was lying. And if that's the case, you don't want to be together with a liar.
2006-10-05 15:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont call him, but apparently you really fell for him so you cant just forget him. Try dating and see what there is out there. you might be suprised to what you find.
2006-10-05 15:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by kitcatt143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you get over the hurt and lie he told you and how he used you then find you a new friend and it sound like he got you wrapped around his finger like a puppet wake up don't be no fool move on the hurt will leave but keep your pride good luck
2006-10-05 15:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HEY I WANT A JAGWIRE BUT I HAD TO SETTLE FOR A CADILLAC, SO MAYBE YOU COULD FING A GOOD COMFORTABLE MODEL AND HANG ON TO IT
2006-10-05 15:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"nothing lasts for ever even cold november rain".
2006-10-05 14:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Shuvaka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's up to you if you'll do this or not....
pray and give all your hurtings and burden to god nad everthing will be alright... trust me - it works!
2006-10-05 15:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lok2Lok 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋