My girlfriend told me I'm boring tonight-she said I'm always "bleh". What I do to change her opinion of me?
2006-10-05 15:01:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do silly things for her... when your around her try to have more personality and be happy and goofy.. when shes not looking slip a post it in her bag for her to find later... if your bleh// its probably because yall do the same ol things every day.. so switch it up. do something different with her..... good luck!
2006-10-05 15:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by im just me.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to first ask her what it is that she would like to see from you, that would make her feel more "excited" about you!
If she comes up with reasonable points, and you care enough about her and agree to her points...then, start taking small steps to add some of what she's looking for into the relationship. If you listen to her points, or...she doesn't really make any good points- then, you may have to accept that you two just might not be compatable! I mean...if she wants some spice, she has to contribute to that too! You aren't here to entertain her, OR to be something that you're not...and neither is she...so, COMMUNICATE and see what the results are!
Good luck!
2006-10-05 15:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her definition is "bleh" is the same as my girlfriend's definition, I can help.
I never kept with a conversation, and I never really said much at all.
Start talking to her a bit more. Have fun with her, and take her out. Have her come with you to hang out with a group of your friends that she hasn't hung out with before. Play songs she likes and dance with her out of nowhere, don't be predictable. Just have fun with her.
Smile a lot more, and occasionally tell her a joke or something?
My girlfriend loves it.
2006-10-05 15:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there may be a reason for the 'bleh'ness. It's probably her. Theres a chance she isn't the right girl for you. have you ever felt theres some girls, that you have as friends, that make you laugh regardless of how you're feeling? Now think how she makes you feel. Goodluck.
If you don't want to break up with her, or you think it's definitly you, find some exciting side of you. Alot of serious people can have a good time if they open themselves up to new and exciting things.
2006-10-05 15:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, not all guys are exciting. I myself am considered boring by a lot of people, but someone who sees you for who you really are will see the fun side in you. If you have to try hard to show a girl a good time, she's probably not the one for you. It should be natural.
2006-10-05 15:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by big_j_gizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something very different or she won't be your girlfriend much longer. Maybe be more romantic, try long walks and more similar things. Also, give her a choice on what you do and act like you enjoy what ever she come up with. Who knows in your present state you may be BORING.
2006-10-05 15:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds sad, but you probably won't be able to.
Unless there are fun things about you that you don't bring out around her. You should try them out, and if she reacts adversely, then she doesn't really like who you are.
If you do break up with her, learn to be more comfortable with yourself over the next few years. Maybe you'll meet someone you can have mutual fun with.
2006-10-05 15:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous in a good way. But just stop and assess your self. What are you are you doing and not doing? Take her out on a great date out of the ordinary. Give her a private massage session. Paint her toes, but suck them first...
Just do something wild and crazy! Remember what you don't do someone else will. So if you care about her needs, you will aim to please.
2006-10-05 15:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think of spontaneous things to do to her. like walk in the park or someplace really occupied with people , a very public place. Then pick her up and spin her around while kissing her deeply.... just to give you a clue
2006-10-05 15:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all she wouldnt be going out with you if you where boring well just do some fun things she likesto do not boring stuff like play viedo games or whatever it is you do
2006-10-05 15:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋