Okay, this is how it goes. Me and Johnny (this dude in my algebra class) are like really cool with each other. I THINK i like him, but i think i am afraid to admit i do. I want to tell him that i like him, but i don't really want to ruin our friendship with each other. I am scared that we will not be friends any more and i really want to stay friends with him! I don't know if i should tell him or not! Should I? Because I had a dream last night that we were at his house making-out, and i woke up before we could go all the way. What should i tell him at school tomorrow? Because we trade hugs like everyday. I give him a hug on monday, and he'll give me one on tuesday, then i'll give him on the next day, and so on.. Should i tell him i feel this way? or should i wait a while and become closer friends. Because i am at a new school this year, and i've known him for less than 2 months, but i already feel like i REALLY like him... HELP ME PLEASE! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-10-05 14:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, you people who said i was in a hurry to grow up is not true. Being the age I AM , is obviously old enough for relationships, if everyone in my grade has a boyfriend and girlfriend. The thing is, people in 8th, 9th, and 10th grade are old enough to know what they are doing, so I do not need people to tell me if i am old enough for relationships. If I look like I am the age old enough for relationships, then I am. Don't worry about my age, worry about my problems. and i'm not slutty enough to have sex at my age. that is not cute.
2006-10-06 17:56:07 · update #1
well u no what they say if u have that dream more then once its ment to come true and it sounds like u really really like him i say go for it i mean whats the worse that can happen he may just like u and sy yea i mean just like the whole hug thing there somthing there rite if yall giving hugs every day somthing is thereso kind of connection i say stop holding back and tell him and if it dont work im sure yall would stay friendsjust do it like this when u tell himlet him no that if he dont want the same that u really would like to stay friends.... good luck gurl with what ever u do
2006-10-05 14:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by rudy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends. Let HIM make the move. If you do and he doesn't feel the same, your friendship is ruined. Going all the way! Way to really ruin it. He'll think so much less of you. No one respects an easy girl. Why are you in such a hurry to grow up. Have you thought of birth control, sexually transmitted diseases, and you can get them with oral sex. And YES oral sex IS sex.
2006-10-05 21:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you could ask him how he feels about you first just see where you stand with him. An depin on what he saids if he seem to like you to then yea tell him you like him to. It could be he is thinking the some thing you are about being afraid.
2006-10-05 22:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One command; DO NOT ASK HIM OUT...besides, asking out is the guys' duty, not yours. If he really likes you that much, he will ask you eventually. But, try to keep it cool for now. Play around, talk on the phone, hang out, and just be good friends until you two get a better understanding on how you two like each other. Then, if it's totally evident that he likes you, and he's not doing anything, YOU go do the first move and ask him.
2006-10-05 21:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should take a chance, if you don't it'll just bother you and bother you. I don't think he'd not want to be friends anymore he might even feel the same way, heck you said you guys exchange hugs every other day? Shoot for it!
2006-10-05 21:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only guys who hug are gay or they are copping a feel. He at least is one of these things. If he is trying to cop a feel, maybe he likes you. I think I'd give it more time, and see if he asks you out.
2006-10-05 22:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're gonna know is if you ask this guy, he might feel the same way, if he doesn't then at least you'll know for sure.
just be honest about how you feel if you do like him or just have a crush on him. there's a big difference there.
2006-10-05 21:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would u feel as though he would not b friends wit u anymore? If it was me i would tell him to see his reactions. U never know he might have an eye for u. I would go for it. Good Luck
2006-10-05 21:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by DIMPLES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look my best answer is if you feel the need to tell him tell him you will never know if you don't go for it it sounds like he feels the same way guys don't hug you unless they like you.
2006-10-05 21:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by lady o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a little more time for you two to get more closer and if that happens,maybe you can tell him how you feel about him!
2006-10-05 21:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋