Singles & Dating - 2 October 2006

I told this girl that I had "feelings" for her. She sent me this in email after several emails and IM convos in an attempt to figure things out between us.

"Let me just tell you, I think any 'feelings' you have for me is something like this 'oh, i really like steph, we get along' -- that's what I have for you! It's not developing into anything, but it's awfully nice to know it's there, because you're a good friend to talk to, and we can just enjoy a wonderful relationship that way."

She also said she is not looking for a relationship with anyone right now. What does all of this mean?

2006-10-02 09:41:57 · 5 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

Do they have any problem about it?

2006-10-02 09:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by Itamar R 5

i am not ugly but i am not a beauty queen and i want to know if a guy (seriously) would marry a gilr just based on her looks...be honest

2006-10-02 09:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by Brokensoul898 2

2006-10-02 09:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by brotherlove88 1

Well i have this huge crush on a dude im a dude too but anyways i never had this strong of feelings for a guy before. Ive always known i was bi but i never really had crushes on dudes i just thought of them *** sexy or "bangable". Im actually developing feelings for a guy now that i met this year. I think about him morning noon and night when i masterbate i think of his face Im just so crazy about him his name runs through my mind 200-300 times a day. But im in the closet and dont plan on coming out what should i do i pretty sure hes straight but i get a vibe he's bi what should i do please help how can i talk to him and move on in to see if we have something without it turning into a MESSSSSS. PLEZ BE RESPECTFUL DONT BASH ME I CANT HELP WHO I LIKE I DINT CHOOSE TO BE LIKE THIS.

2006-10-02 09:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

LATER:

Got email saying 'i didnt think u'd be stupid enough to not apologise, but u obviously are, maybe u meant to be that mean?

2006-10-02 09:36:48 · 8 answers · asked by g s 1

2006-10-02 09:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by xOxMonicaoXo 1

Does any other girl here feel like they avoid men altogether because they're afraid if they're openly friendly then the weird guys will latch on like a leech? I'm always afraid every guy with turn into a weirdo. It happens to me a lot.

2006-10-02 09:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 09:32:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy we started dating everything was well.he was on vacation from work.so we would see eachother EVERYDAY!.he would come to my work take me to lunch all was great.i never questioned him cause he was always taking me out buying me nice things.HE DIDNT have a job!1st lie one day we went to a family gathering i got up to serve him some food and when i came back he said your cousin was flirting with me.i was like BS!didnt pay attention and went on with the party.. a few days later he tells me hey lets go on a double date.me you and ask one of your cousins to come with my friend.so i was like KOOL!.so he was like give me her# so they can talk for a bit.so i did!.my cousin calls me at work and tells me that he was flirting with her (MY GUY!).HE DENIED IT!.then admitted it.he said that he knew she wanted him and he was a GUY!..he keeps on begging me for a chance..its gotten scary..to the point were hes stalking me..ive stayed away changed my # im not even safe on myspace!..

2006-10-02 09:32:22 · 13 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3

2006-10-02 09:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 09:30:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have asked my gf repeatedly if she has a myspace account and she keeps telling me no. One of my B friends found her on that site. We have had problems cuz of myspace before and now she has gotton one behind my back. should i be worried. I mean i dont have a myspace account cuz she has asked me not to get one and i have asked the same from her. but now she has one. what should i do about that . has she turned into one of the myspace whores? Is she talking to other guys after i asked her not to?Why else would she be hiding it from me?

2006-10-02 09:30:22 · 27 answers · asked by dunebugger 2

We have been dating for about two months. He has a 7 year old daughter who I met several times. The three of us sometimes go out shopping, eating out, etc. He and I spend a lot of time in the park or at his place. We kissed passionately and make love all day long.

Everything seemed to go well until last week when he mentioned he about a girlfriend after someone he knew asked him where was his "wife". He then told me that he was referring to his girlfriend the acquantaince usually saw accompanying down the street. He told the relationship was already over for the past few years. He then told that I was irrational.

I want to believe him since I don't see pictures of women in his apartment. But I see pictures of his daughter.

What do you think? I really have feelings for this man.

2006-10-02 09:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Ryan Seacrest 2

there is this guy i am really crazy about and sometimes i feel he likes me too because he always smiles and says silly things that i find so funny. but he is a really different guy, i dont know how he feels about girls or what he looks for in a girl. i cant get him off my mind and i cant ever tell him how i feel, i am losing cocentration on everything else and i just want to get over him and move on but everyday my feelings just intensify! what can i do???

2006-10-02 09:28:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my mid 20s. So why can't I just pick up and move on.

2006-10-02 09:27:15 · 16 answers · asked by JB 2

I dated 'X' for 5 years. Recently broke it off because thigns never made it to the next level. Been single since about Feb.
I finally have a new guy in my life that has serious marriage potential. I still talk to my ex often as a friend and now hes freaking out and having panic attacks because of my new relationship. What can i do??

2006-10-02 09:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

since im almost 17, most people i know have had p.m.s. lol. premarital sex. so i just wanted some more experienced people's thoughts, opinions likes and dislikes of this.

2006-10-02 09:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay last year i liked this girl...i thought she liked me and we were friends, i asked her out, but she didnt say anything, now she doesnt even talk to me....and i still have a like a really big crush on her, and helpful hints (remeber she doesnt talk to me)

2006-10-02 09:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by andy2020@prodigy.net 2

i told my best friend to kiss me and (he did ) after he told me i was the most beautiful gurl he'd seen !!!! awww.................!!!!! i enjoyed the kiss more than ever i mean it twas better that the kisses iv'e had in the past !!!! i really want more .............. should i go ahead and kiss him ? i never realized it but i think im in love w/ him ! ( never felt like this about a boi )


THANK YOU !!!!!

2006-10-02 09:23:57 · 22 answers · asked by kissasiss_7 1

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

LATER:

Got email saying 'i didnt think u'd be stupid enough to not apologise, but u obviously are, maybe u meant to be that mean?

2006-10-02 09:23:52 · 4 answers · asked by g s 1

I am so in love with this guy. He's 2 years younger than me. (17 & I'm 19) He's a senior in high school and I'm in my 3rd sem. of college. Ok, We were dating for about 13months. All of a sudden when it was time for me to go to college. He decided he just wanted to be friends and told me that we would get back together. Because "I was the one for him". I was so devasted when we broke up (Aug.2005) Next thing, I know he's dating this girl that I thought was my friend. He didn't know we were friends. But, she did. And it really hurts to know that their together. B/c I'm SO STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM! Umm,,, I was in his sister's wedding and I am so close with his family and everybody. I really am so tired of being without him. I've been praying for the day to come that we can be together again; because I really do think he's the one for me. His parents are church going people and that's what I like so much about them. Besides, me and his twin sister are best friends. HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-10-02 09:22:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 09:22:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am pregnant with my ex. bf child but he is dating my best friend now. I am also with someone else and have been for 8 months. This happened 2 months ago when me and my guy were on a break and i saw my ex. bf at a frat part and well we hooked up while being very drunk. I was not in the right state of mind and he had been dating my best friend for 3 months. I dont want to hurt my best friend or my bf.

2006-10-02 09:21:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not entirely sure if I'm addicted to wearing silky or lacy panties or if I just like those types of material..anyone know how to find out? or how to completely stop when I get extremely turned on by even just talking about them?

2006-10-02 09:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by pantywearer14 1

What are your thoughts on dating a woman who grew up on a farm?? (No overalls though!!) Is this scary, sexy, interesting, exciting...? Or do you have any thoughts at all about this?

2006-10-02 09:20:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not talking about 15 and 20 more like 21 and 32 or 19 and 28 and does it matter who is older the man or the women?

2006-10-02 09:20:31 · 9 answers · asked by notyochic 6

I met a guy in the spring at a series of frat parties my last semester of college. He went to the same college, but graduated before I got there. I haven't seen him all summer, and friday night we're at another frat party, and he asks for my number so I give it to him. Sadly, the boys in his frat that I've given my number to are notorious for NOT calling. I found the guy on myspace, and am wondering if I should send him a message or not? Or should I wait a few days and see if he does call? I genuinely do like this guy (it helps that he's the opposite of my ex in like, every way). Advice?

2006-10-02 09:20:17 · 7 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6

2006-10-02 09:19:56 · 6 answers · asked by Tubby 1

2006-10-02 09:19:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous