since im almost 17, most people i know have had p.m.s. lol. premarital sex. so i just wanted some more experienced people's thoughts, opinions likes and dislikes of this.
2006-10-02 09:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're not very careful with whom you have intercourse with you might end up with a sexually transmitted disease (even with oral) or get pregnant. Some people say wait until you get married, but it really is your prerogative. Just make sure that before you plunge in remember that to decide that you "can do it" you should also be ready for consequences and responsibilities that come with it.
2006-10-02 09:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Leela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel pressured by what other's are doing. I am a male and I didn't have sex until I left college. I had plenty of opportunities (so it wasn't because I wasn't attractive). The way I looked at it was i already had plenty of problems as it was, the last thing I needed was open up a whole new can of worms with sex in my life.
I asked myself the question, "If I got a girl pregnant or caught an STD, could I handle it right now?" The answer was no. So I decided to not put myself in that situation.
2006-10-02 09:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are showing some intelligence in asking your question..many do not.
There is nothing wrong with pre-marital sex or post-marital sex either for that matter.
Anyway take a look at the site I have listed below and it will give you some information. Also if you look around in the rest of the site it will tell you many things about handling sex in your life.
Remember always though: sex, like food, was given to us to be loved and enjoyed!
2006-10-02 10:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise against pre marital. I'm guessing you're still in high school, and I can assure you that is a bad time to have a kid. Sure, there's safe sex and lowers your chances of that stuff, but you can't be too sure. At least wait until you are out on your own and gain a bit more responsibility that comes with age.
2006-10-02 09:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by conservative_rocker1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that people should try other people on until they are around 28.. then they should know enough about themselves, what they want and don't want, what they like and don't like to be able to seriously start and survive a serious committed relationship.
Part of tring people on is sex. You have to find out what you like and don't like about it before you can comitt to someone for the rest of your life ... right? how bout buying a car and making payments on it for the rest of your life having never seen how it performs or handels? how bout buying a house just based on what it looks like from the outside? you wouldn't do that so why do it with a relatinoship that should last the rest of your life?
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2006-10-02 09:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to save themselves for the right person and some people like to exeriance sex so they know how to do it alittle better when they get married. It all depends on how you feel
2006-10-02 09:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would look at this way if you dont have sex with the person before you marry them then how do you know you can spend the rest of your life with them it might be dissapointing
2006-10-02 09:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people have different thoughts about it. Do it when you are ready, although it is a really REALLY big step. I think it is worth it if you are really that serious about someone.
2006-10-02 09:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a gift i am a very attractive 16 year old male but i am saving myself no matter how good it feels
2006-10-02 09:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by city 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as martha stewart says "it's a good thing"
2006-10-02 09:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋