I met a guy in the spring at a series of frat parties my last semester of college. He went to the same college, but graduated before I got there. I haven't seen him all summer, and friday night we're at another frat party, and he asks for my number so I give it to him. Sadly, the boys in his frat that I've given my number to are notorious for NOT calling. I found the guy on myspace, and am wondering if I should send him a message or not? Or should I wait a few days and see if he does call? I genuinely do like this guy (it helps that he's the opposite of my ex in like, every way). Advice?
2006-10-02 09:20:17 · 7 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's kind of shy, and I'm not one of those girls that's just after "that one thing..." Honestly, I've never done "it," and don't intend to start.
2006-10-02 09:36:29 · update #1
let him come to you.
if you start initiating things first that will make it easier for him to never do anything.
you'll end up doing all the work...he'll never call you because he knows you'll call him.
read the rules, love. seriously, they do work. they're not outdated.
anyways, let him call you. if he doesn't, then do you really want to date a guy who didn't want to take the time to make a 5 minute phonecall.
nah.
2006-10-02 09:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by wendydarling128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is up to you if you want to contact him. but he goes to frat partys all the time and he gets lots of numbers and doesn't call the girls back.. that would be your clue in hes a guy that is looking for a piece of *** and thats about it. I don't think he wants a relationship. Sorry hunn.
2006-10-02 16:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Devilish Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact him, but you state that you have already given your nember to others in his frat, so he may be put off towards you, especially if you messed around with them.
2006-10-02 16:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by chris w james 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's interested he will call. He may be one of these guys that like to make you wait and hope they will call. Kida jerky I think, but thats their personality
2006-10-02 16:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, only if he doesn't call you in a couple of days. By all means leave him a message.
2006-10-02 16:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured nothing gained go for it,,, but don't say do you remember me line !!!
2006-10-02 16:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by weescotsguy66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not.get on with your life.you don't know him enough to know he is different fom your ex
2006-10-02 16:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋