Does any other girl here feel like they avoid men altogether because they're afraid if they're openly friendly then the weird guys will latch on like a leech? I'm always afraid every guy with turn into a weirdo. It happens to me a lot.
2006-10-02 09:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex was really creepy. However, he was a boy, not a man. There's a really big difference.
2006-10-02 09:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about developing a more sophisticated screening process. Every girl is bound to attract some 'undesirables' now and then (it happens to the best of us) but in those situations it is all about listening to you gut feelings. If you feel like a guy is creepy or making you feel uneasy, listen to you intuition and tell him you're not interested. Also, don't be afraid to be a ***** if you have to. In my experiences, creepy men often approach women with the attitude that they will wear us down the longer they persist knowing that we don't want to be rude. I am not saying get out your rape whistle, but don't be afraid to flat out tell a guy to get lost. You should never avoid all men all together- don't give up faith that your guy is out there and that you will find him. Keep hope alive sista, he is out there! Every princess has to kiss a few frogs to find her prince (sorry for the cliches here but they are true!)
Good luck, happy hunting, and don't give up!!!
2006-10-02 10:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by cintishoegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the habit of talking to any man whatsoever and then giving out my number and then trying to get rid of these men who mistook my friendliness as a romantic interest - it' s not that i avoid men altogether now - i'm just more selective - try that.
2006-10-02 09:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-02 09:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
:( that's happened to me before.. he was soooo creepy. I was just trying to be friendly and then he made everyone at work think we were together.. he was practically stalking me.. i had to switch jobs :|
i don't avoid men though, i'm just a little more careful about who i'm friendly towards.
2006-10-02 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I make it a point to only be around guys I trust as much as possible. It's hard for me to meet someone new because of this....
2006-10-02 09:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋