i met this guy we started dating everything was well.he was on vacation from work.so we would see eachother EVERYDAY!.he would come to my work take me to lunch all was great.i never questioned him cause he was always taking me out buying me nice things.HE DIDNT have a job!1st lie one day we went to a family gathering i got up to serve him some food and when i came back he said your cousin was flirting with me.i was like BS!didnt pay attention and went on with the party.. a few days later he tells me hey lets go on a double date.me you and ask one of your cousins to come with my friend.so i was like KOOL!.so he was like give me her# so they can talk for a bit.so i did!.my cousin calls me at work and tells me that he was flirting with her (MY GUY!).HE DENIED IT!.then admitted it.he said that he knew she wanted him and he was a GUY!..he keeps on begging me for a chance..its gotten scary..to the point were hes stalking me..ive stayed away changed my # im not even safe on myspace!..
2006-10-02 09:32:22 · 13 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure more and more people know about this if for some reason you meet up w him tell 1 person where.
he isnt safe anyway you look at it ,if being a guy is to cheat then he should try being a man and not taking forgranted of the great people he finds in life.
2006-10-02 09:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by stcgoodman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so he could not help himself because he was not strong enough, because he is plyaful or because he has no respect for you. I think that the story needs elaboration. So your cousin and him were flirting. I am sure it was mutual, but as long as you tell your cousin to respect you and your guy that that all needs to stop, then that is the end of that. Though the toubling part is that he said 'he knew she wanted him'. So what, every girl that he knows they want him he is going to flirt with. TACKY. I think maybe you should not have got rid of him so quickly, or at least it sounds like that was the case. But now that he has shown a psycho-side, I would watch out. I mean what do you mean 'not even safe'. DO you feel safe? Like he is going to hurt you? Or could it be that he just wants some kind of closure being he was in the wrong?
2006-10-02 09:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by BMacK83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. He is a guy what a lame excuse more like he is a jerk. Your cousin is cool for telling you. I think you should find a different guy who rocks and won't flirt with your family members. He will eventually give up.
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2006-10-02 09:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would call the police if its that bad. You may be over reacting, but maybe not. You never know. He sounds like a player. Youre probly right to stay away from him. Just watch your back. Im sorry he did you that way, men CAN BE dogs...like you said.
2006-10-02 09:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel in danger, get a order of protection. Let the police know!
Sounds like this guy is a stalker.
i hope you learned lesson; ASK questions!
2006-10-02 09:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. as a guy I can tell you we are not all like that. but still alarm bells should have gone off when he asked for another girls number. that screams player.
2006-10-02 09:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
corection my lady but some not all some u get it some not all of us some us care that gurls don't mistreated or hurt by jerks or those stupid guys im one of the guys that like care for the gurl that she feels loved and respected and would never cheat on her never i mean it never!!!!!!!!! hey what does guy look like i'll kick his *** for your safety.
2006-10-02 09:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by italian guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if men are dogs...women are b i t c h e s? Cause there are female dogs as we all know and males can't be females...so can women be cats? But if women are cats what happens to the male cats?
2006-10-03 10:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by bubble boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 03:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋