any ideas what to do?

Question

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

LATER:

Got email saying 'i didnt think u'd be stupid enough to not apologise, but u obviously are, maybe u meant to be that mean?

Answer 1

Personally i think she is wrong and you have nothin to say sorry for. If you hadnt of asked she probably would have been upset and said you dont care. And when you talk about stuff like that there are bound to be questions so she is stupid for being upset.

Maybe she is just tryna start somethin. DO NOT SAY SORRY

Answer 2

You're in a pickle. I believe there is a misunderstanding here. Either she heard something else when you asked the question (where did you go?) or she misunderstood what you meant when you asked that question. She thinks you said something highly offensive and she wants you to be sorry for it. Honesty will work best in this situatuon. Tell her what you meant and that if the question is still offensive, that you are sorry for asking it. You wouldn't be asking for help if you didn't care. Reassure her that you do. And best of luck in the future.

Answer 3

She's nuts man. What are you to apologize for ?? She blew the whole thing way out of proportion and is still continuing to do it. All I can tell you is if you stay with this girl you should expect more of this drama. You should send an e-mail back asking her what her problem is. Tell her you have no idea why she bugged out and what your supposed to apologize for. Is there something you left out of this whole story ?? If not then I dont get her.

Answer 4

You should give her time until she can tell you the whole story, cause when you automatically asks her what happened,she probably feels like she's not ready to tell you, so just apologize to her and tell her that when she is ready to tell you, than you'll be ready to listen. All will go well and ya can move on with the relationship. It's all about giving her time to be fully opened up to you, and she'll tell you everything.

Answer 5

I honestly don't see why she got mad at you for asking. Seems to me you were curious like I would have been. I got an idea she went to live with a man and she doesn't want to mention it to you. I'd call and say "I was sorry that she got upset from my inquiry" and leave it at that.

Answer 6

it was a simple question that deserves a simple answer.
she is manipulating u, dude. playing your mind, setting the table for the feast and u r dinner. she is going to play you for eternity if you allow her.

tell her you understand it was hard to live through that, but she is still young and was young when she left (which i doubt.) where did she go, when was this? answers need to be forthcoming or she needs to play someone else.

brace yourself for a ride. she is going to try to rock you good, and soon. get ready to be single again, look for a stable gal.

Answer 7

This sounds like a girl with big league problems. I'd leave her alone.

Answer 8

sorry for you, g s...she sounds like a psycho chick....i don't feel you did anything wrong...it wasn't a bad question....and i don't think you were being mean..

i have no advise for you.

sorry