Singles & Dating - 29 September 2006

I know this guy, he's rather shy. He rarely talks to me but i think i caught him looking at me quite a number of times lately. How do u noe dat he really start noticing u or it's juz me who's thinking too much?

2006-09-29 20:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by Lucia 2

I met this guy last April and we had a short relationship for about 2 and a half months, but he ended it with me because he was going back to school 2 months later and he didn't want to get into a long-distance relationship, plus he no longer felt "sparks" for me. Yet he still called me to hang out with him and his friends, and when I denied he was very upset, and even a year and a half later he's still talking to me on MSN. I also moved to another city and he'll be visiting friends here in a week for 5 days... he asked me to go clubbing. I never got over him even though I saw other guys in between.... and even today still have strong feelings for him. Should I meet up with him? Or is that a mistake in itself if it'll never be anything more than a hookup?

2006-09-29 20:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sorena L 1

2006-09-29 20:46:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy he does pay attention to me but i want to get him to like me and ask me out he flirts alot he is very cute but my friend also likes him and she told me she liked him but i still want to ask him out what should i do?

2006-09-29 20:38:30 · 23 answers · asked by baby_girl 1

2006-09-29 20:35:37 · 25 answers · asked by James Blond 4

I saw this really nice looking guy on myspace. He added me as his friend, and we have loads in common and he is very cute. The only problem is that he lives in LA and I live in SF, I will be moving down to LA probably in Jan for grad school, but what can I do til then? How can I get this guy to like me without looking like a weirdo, so that, maybe we could speak on the phone, or something like that?

2006-09-29 20:34:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 20:33:55 · 9 answers · asked by sam 1

Isabela to them... should I tell them to call me mommy or auntie or what? Thanks!

2006-09-29 20:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1

I talked to my ex finally and he doesn’t want to get back with me, he told me there wasn’t any chance we’d get back together ever again, and he thought I understood it was just sex and he agrees we shouldn’t have sex anymore. I told him we couldn’t talk anymore either, and I am so sad and devastated. I really don’t know what to with myself right now. I am so hurt by him. I don’t want to say he lead me on but how could he move on so fast? Our relationship ended 2 weeks ago and he already says he’s back to normal and can date other people. To be honest I don’t know why he doesn’t love me and he says he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. I guess it’s hard when im crying over the phone, but still I wish he’d be honest instead of beating around the bush. Why do I love him so much if he doesn’t love me in return? How can I allow myself these feelings when they are not returned? I don’t know what to do to move on and I feel I may never get over him. I might be able to finally function normally, but I’ll never get over him. He says he loved me at one time in our relationship but I think he’s lying. How could he and be fine now? He says his love for me was different. Why does he hurt me so bad? I told him we can’t talk anymore and he said ok that’s fine. He said I’m good in bed and I said maybe we can just be friends and talk occasionally but not sleep with each other, and he said no. Apparently he just wanted sex. He said if he wasn’t benefiting from hearing about me then why would he talk to me? Why is he such an asshole? I am so traumatized and I don’t know when I’ll trust again. We’ve broken up so many times and I’ve fallen into a deep depression many times, but right now I am beside myself with sadness. .I know its for real now and all I can see now is a future without him and it seems so depressing to know I’ll have to move on only because HE didn’t want ME. It wouldn’t be that way if he had just wanted me and not been so difficult. Who does he think he is anyway? He will never find another girl like me, he won’t get a girl as beautiful as me to love him this much. Why do you guys let a good thing go? *tears* * tears* *tears streaming down my cheek*.

2006-09-29 20:31:58 · 32 answers · asked by coochie1 2

sometimesi like her sometimes i don't like her
its crazy

2006-09-29 20:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It didn't end because either of us wanted it to , it ended because he got deported. It wasn't the greatest relationship but I still miss him at times. I can't help him, only he can help himself. We have a child together. I'm seeing another guy , its just not the same.
I lived with him and did everything with him, shower , eat, sleep everything. We were attached at the hip and VERY posessive of one another. This new guy and I aren't THAT close . Its very hard adjusting , how long will it take?

2006-09-29 20:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by primamaria04 5

my boyfriend responded to 5 girls personal ads in craiglist saying he is single and asked 5 strangers to go out on a date with him to enjoy good times and even gave out his phone number. he is usually so charming with me and is trying to move in together, and talks about our future children and married life. He also loves to go to the club alone, but since i told him i dont think is right to go alone, he tries to stay home. he refuses to take me. and now he figured out he wants to be a dj. he also wants a weeklong vacation alone once we get married. the majority of his friends are single, drink and party too much. i am divorced with a 7 year old he says he cares about, and plays with him videogames. in other areas he is pretty good, just cant understand his odd behavior

2006-09-29 20:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 years old and 5'7"; I never sowed my wild oats because I was always to shy until recently. Now where in the world could I go to have a fairly easy time meeting some beautiful women I can have sex with? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please no BS smartass answers.....thanks.

2006-09-29 20:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by mattclaptongad 1

Mmmk, here's the deal. I'm uncomfortable around people, and especially guys (even more especially the cute guys and hot guys, naturally), unless I know them well, and it's a real pain when I'm trying to make new friends. I'm a freshman at UC Santa Barbara, and I live on a co-ed floor. I don't have a problem with that, its actually quite amusing at times. But, I'm trying to make new friends, and it's really hard because I'm so worried about people thinking I'm homosexual or something when I'm not. I'm one of those girls who has an insanely dirty mind, but is completely straight, yanno? I'm also afraid of flirting for some reason unknown to even me. How do I overcome this... thing, and become comfortable around people, especially guys? Help a girl out, will ya? Thanks!

2006-09-29 20:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by High On Life 5

I know a girl from 2 years. She is such a interesting girl that many boys had proposed her. We are very much in touch. I am some type of reserved type of guy she has admit. I proposed her but she is keep saying you are my friend I dont want any other relationship. But she is ready to share everything. She said that she is imotionally, physically mine. She use to speak me many hours and hours. She also adimt that she likes me from strating. But she doesnt want to give our relationship a name. But I want this relationship far way to marry. What I do ??

2006-09-29 20:23:15 · 10 answers · asked by wind_chill 1

my bf is sick and he has a 2 year old and twins his ex the 2 year olds mom heard that her son was sick and jon got pissed off because she blames him for ezekeil being sick.even thought it is his fault.so she ends up helping him out and they seem to have a love/ hate relationship.jons really clumsy and once he fell out my apt window and was hanging upside down from the fire escape laughing.his big brothe whos 12 years older then him came by to halp take care of his twins.the problem is hes just like jon but more educated with kids and almost twince as clumsy.when jons ex came in with soup she "accidently spilled some on him" he got pissed off and started yelling in italian and she starts yelling in spanish.then his brother comes in and does a belly flop on the bed and the rest of the soup spills.i dont know if i should leave the 3 of them alone with 3 kids there.because there all pretty much the same and sometimes the 2 year old acts better.

2006-09-29 20:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by me 1

2006-09-29 20:17:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am asking this seriously. I have never had any type of sex other than regular intercourse. Some of my friends say it's the best, but I would think it would hurt the girl.

Am I missing out, and does it feel different? Thanks!

2006-09-29 20:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do they ask you personal stuff? Why can't they be normal? Why is sex a big deal for them? I'm not saying sex is bad or anything but guys tend to exaggerate about it. They're always like, "what are you wearing? or do you cam?" and stupid things like that!!! Ughh...

2006-09-29 20:16:32 · 24 answers · asked by meche 2

lots of compliments and to be treated like thay are smart

anything else?

2006-09-29 20:15:17 · 20 answers · asked by blah 2

help please and no retarded answers!!!!

2006-09-29 20:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

With more metrosexuals out there & women who like them, I was wondering how many of you men actually do wax and if any of you do the whole all over back, sac & crack? I know, staying hair free is a big job that never ends so its got to be a major job for men!
If you do wax, is it for yourself, for the lady friend or the boyfriend?
And ladies.. do you like it? I personally love a hairy man but I also know that my taste in men is usually far from the norm..so I'm genuinely curious at to the men who do it, why they do & the women or men who like their man to be hairfree not hairy.

2006-09-29 20:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by punkvixen 5

2006-09-29 20:13:11 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1

2006-09-29 20:11:35 · 4 answers · asked by spackler 6

my bf is sick and he has a 2 year old and twins his ex the 2 year olds mom heard that her son was sick and jon got pissed off because she blames him for ezekeil being sick.even thought it is his fault.so she ends up helping him out and they seem to have a love/ hate relationship.jons really clumsy and once he fell out my apt window and was hanging upside down from the fire escape laughing.his big brothe whos 12 years older then him came by to halp take care of his twins.the problem is hes just like jon but more educated with kids and almost twince as clumsy.when jons ex came in with soup she "accidently spilled some on him" he got pissed off and started yelling in italian and she starts yelling in spanish.then his brother comes in and does a belly flop on the bed and the rest of the soup spills.i dont know if i should leave the 3 of them alone with 3 kids there.because there all pretty much the same and sometimes the 2 year old acts better.idont think i should leave them or should i

2006-09-29 20:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by me 1

2006-09-29 20:10:43 · 5 answers · asked by sundaynightjazz 1

white wedding dress... what do you think? I say I'm pure and therefore deserve to wear white... thanks for your help!

2006-09-29 20:08:58 · 24 answers · asked by isabela d 1

Is it true that black men have the biggest penises?
if so, Where is your proof?

2006-09-29 20:07:56 · 22 answers · asked by the man 1

Here is the story. I am a college freshman, and I believe I have a crush on this girl, who is very classy, nice, and always smiling. Both of us are in ballroom dancing club, and that's how I got to know her. I have known her for only 10 days, but I feel that she is the girl I really like. Whenever I meet her and talk to her, I try to find some common grounds and talk about them. However, I'm a little worried because I am not so humorous. I have recently noticed that some dudes have started talking to her. I can see they are trying to hit on her. My best friend tells me that they are ugly scrubs and that I should be able to "get her" as long as I have confidence. I am still worried though. I wrote on her Faceball wall several times, but she never wrote back. I wonder if this indicates her lack of interest. I know I should take some time to get to know her better, but I don't want to see someone else becoming her boyfriend. I need some advice. Thank you.

2006-09-29 20:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to waste my time hitting on a girl if she's not going to give it up later on. Is there a way to tell if a girl is going to put out or if she's a prude?

2006-09-29 20:02:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous