i like this guy he does pay attention to me but i want to get him to like me and ask me out he flirts alot he is very cute but my friend also likes him and she told me she liked him but i still want to ask him out what should i do?
2006-09-29 20:38:30 · 23 answers · asked by baby_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that I would talk to my friend and see what she thinks. Tell her that you like him to, and if it is OK with her than you are going to ask him out. If not than I would ask her not to ask him out ether so you can both feel the same thing, and keep your friendship in one peace.
2006-09-29 20:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heavy Metal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Settle it with your friend first, one of you should back down & let the other have a go.
Don't let the boy get between you two so your friendship does not suffer & you both lose him!
Best regards
2006-09-30 03:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be courageous and dive into the love ocean....... it' ll be either a YES or a NO and nothing more...... u gonna lose nothing except a bit depress if it' s a no... but be an optimist!!! Coz u'll have other interesting opportunities in the future too.
2006-09-30 03:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the obvious thing is just to ask. If he's not interested, at least you know you gave it effort. If he flirts with many though, will he really care about you as deeply as you deserve?
2006-09-30 03:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out.The worse he can do is say no and,if he says he has made plans with your friend,move on because you don't need freinds who betray you like that and it's a basic rule between freinds-two freinds don't ask the same person out and one person doesn't ask two best freinds out.
2006-09-30 03:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what is more important to you , the guy or your friendship? There will be lots of guys that come and go, but to have a true friendship is few and far.
2006-09-30 03:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close are you with the friend taht likes him? If it is a best friend, stay away....don't let men come in between friends. If he likes you then you shouldn't have to do anything. He will come around....Good Luck!
2006-09-30 03:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to ask the guy out before ur friend does. i mean if u really like him don't sit around do something about it.
2006-09-30 03:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who liked him first?
Is she making any moves or liking him incognito style?
There are more fish in the sea ya know.
Do you like her friendship
or
Do you like him better?
Because that may be what it comes down to and you know boyfriend relationships don't usually last but girlfriends stay forever! ...(as long as the other one doesn't steal the other one's love interest)lol
- Good luck babe :)
2006-09-30 03:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in high school, beat her to the chase, ask him out before she gats a chance. if u r in middle school, i would talk it over with ur friend and see if you could compromise and not like the dude at all
2006-09-30 03:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by confusechixx010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋