I am asking this seriously. I have never had any type of sex other than regular intercourse. Some of my friends say it's the best, but I would think it would hurt the girl.
Am I missing out, and does it feel different? Thanks!
2006-09-29 20:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey the only way is to try it. My husband wanted to try it on me and i refused until he just did it and it was good because it was something different. It hurt like hell the first couple of times though after that u just ease your way in. And i think guys like this because its tighter.
2006-09-29 20:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 04:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are missing out, there should be no taboo's in sex and everything should be experienced. If you do not ask you do not get, and it is not so much painful for a woman as a 'sensation' Che3ck out the post lots and I mean LOTS of women are into it and most know if they do not do it..someone else will do it for them!!! Hence the amount of cheating husbands on here...The hungrey must be fed, a happy dog does not stry, so make it clear that if you ever mamage to pull another girl she had better get with the programme xx Oh disregard all the posts from the fat ugly plain and sexually repressed you willg et saying "No it is dirty and hurts and you should only do it missionary and with the lights off." These are the same ones writing about either why they cannot get a BF or why they are dumped or cheated on. The vast majority are either fat ugly plain or 2 out of the three. Anyway onwards and upwards the pooper beckons.
2006-09-29 20:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude. Do you watch NCIS? Cuz imagine this, you are dnozo and I'm Gibs. I'm goin to smack you in the back of the head w/the biggest *** newspaper roll I can find. You are ******* lucky. She is your best friend and took the chance and put herself out there for you and you said no! You probably broke her heart and really hurt her self esteem. She made the move, and you harshly rejected it. Of course she's pissed. You practically lived a shitload of guy's best dream/wish/hope! Ok. we understand you are religious and thus you can't. I'm not saying you should throw out your entire morals, but you should have still comforted her. Explain to her why and that you can't. Don't let her storm off. You should have stopped. Turned off the water and wrapped the towel around her. hugged her and apologized. Then sit her down and explain to her. But you also need to realize something else. **** the 'cant cuz she's my friend' idea. SHE IS A WOMAN. The fact that she is your BEST FRIEND means she is already in your life. She knows your flaws, your history, and your secrets...and best of all, she IS STILL THERE. She accepts you for you and understands you. So why the **** are you willing to just let it all go out the door? Seriously? Cmon and think about this. She is probably in love with you and you just treated her like ****... Call her, pick her up and go grab some ice cream together. YOU PAY. Sit there in the car or out on a bench in the park and talk to her about it. Talk to her about the relationship between you two. You truly don't understand that she may be the one. You are waiting for someone...maybe she's right in front of you. Stop yourself and ask, are you making the biggest mistake of your life by pushing her away? If anything, stop and realize that by acting negative to the whole situation, you have seriously frucked up. You have made a feeling of resentment, sadness, and hatred in herself toward you...women hold grudges for a long *** time. YOU ARE LOSING YOUR FRIEND. Stop being selfish and stand in her shoes and see what she did. So. get your *** off the damn computer and in that car. Go ******* apologize before you lose her for good. Trust me, losing the girl who is your best friend is one of the worst feelings in the world...It will leave you in ruins for months on end. You defiantly don't want this. I hoped this helped.
2016-03-20 03:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I have never tried back door sex, am I missing out?
I am asking this seriously. I have never had any type of sex other than regular intercourse. Some of my friends say it's the best, but I would think it would hurt the girl.
Am I missing out, and does it feel different? Thanks!
2015-08-18 19:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt the girl it sounds exciting and I imagine it feel different for men although you can't really get it all the way in so I would think it wouldn't be as great as some let on I just think it's taboo enough to gain attention I have tried all kinds of things that wasn't even on my top 20.
2006-09-29 20:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've only had anal sex performed on me once and if you want my honest opinion yes it does hurt a little but it also feels kinda good. I personally believe it's one of those things that you can't really judge on whether or not you like it unless you've done it a few times. I'm really not sure if I liked it a whole lot but I know that I definately didn't mind it and I'm eager to try it again so I can better judge it.
2006-09-29 21:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if done properly it is absolutely wonderful. if you decide to do it first stimulate the place with vaseline on your fingers or use a vibrator to get the place stimulated. put 1 finger in very gently about 1 inch deep and rub in and out. then try two,then three. when ready to begin put it inside very getnly and slowly about i inch and wait. rub her back and kiss her neck help her relax when you feel her relax go deeper and stop do this until you are inside. then very slowly begin in and out. if you can work your butt( if you know what i mean) it feels really good it will be tight so dont come as soon as you enter use self control there is somethign in there that when you go in and out she will orgasm if you have a free hand rubb her cloritis or her puss she will enjoy it. if she starts to move on her own lwt her take over and hold on for the ride. this is not for everybody.
2006-09-29 20:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by marilee w 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if done properly it will not hurt and should not hurt. use lots of ky jelly and take it slow. back door sex is the best. it is so sexy and such a turn on... being on all fours and having your lover insert his penis as he spanks you.
it is so sexy and such a turn on for a women. believe me. face down a$$ up is the only way to go.
2006-09-29 20:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi there, back door sex is something a girl or guy either likes or hates and if they like "they normally love it"
A word of advice "Take it slowly"
good luck ..
2006-09-29 20:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋