It didn't end because either of us wanted it to , it ended because he got deported. It wasn't the greatest relationship but I still miss him at times. I can't help him, only he can help himself. We have a child together. I'm seeing another guy , its just not the same.
I lived with him and did everything with him, shower , eat, sleep everything. We were attached at the hip and VERY posessive of one another. This new guy and I aren't THAT close . Its very hard adjusting , how long will it take?
2006-09-29 20:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was going to marry the guy I was in a relationship with.
2006-09-29 20:29:16 · update #1
It's all in your head. It will take as long as you let it!
Free yourself, life is too short!
Carpe diem!
2006-09-29 20:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well (and I say this with compassion) if you were really in love and joined at the hip you would've A.followed him and B.he would be on the phone with you all the time trying to get you to be where he is..so your the one who is keeping that spark alive.some times its easier to let a love that is so painful go,if it was beyond your control and not anyones fault or breakup. since you didn't go to the country he got deported to then your harboring feelings that he'll come back to you and dont want to face the true reality of it,you wont ever be able to give your new guy a chance because your not allowing this relationship to grow while you keep the hope of the other alive,it will never be the same,but it will never really be... as long as you cant be true to yourself...pick one and stop the other and live with the choice..it'll get better
2006-09-29 20:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound a real clingy person, and the pining is because until the next illegal with no prospects of pulling a decent looking educated woman comes along it will be difficult to move on. But my huess is you have had a lot of experience in being dumped and will get over it, until the next unwashed illegal gets over you. Did you not think of going with him? please...
2006-09-29 20:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop.
The beauty and intensity of love are shown as the irradiating glory
of starlight and sunlight in this dark world.
2006-09-29 20:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From the description you have given, it seems you had lust not love....
Try remembering the bad thigns he did to you and be happy with what you have.
A MAN IN HAND IS WORTH TWO IN THE BUSH
THE GRASS is always greener on the other side
2006-09-29 20:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
longer than u expect coz u still love him.dont try to push him out of ur mind thr more u'll try the harder it will get.so think about him as much as u want but also remind urself that its over and u need to move on.dont compare him to ur present guy.its not fair on him.
2006-09-29 20:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off HAHAHAHAH 2nd im sorry 3rd about a couple months becasue right now your compairing every single guy to him, that feeling with time will eventually go away u just gotta get back out there and spend more time having fun with freinds then sitting around sulking. 4th drink miller-lite it goes down smooth and you know u look good drinking it
2006-09-29 20:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting over it will happen soon enough if you just let it go & as we most of time do stop looking into the past & just go forward.
2006-09-29 20:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never get over real love and if you are not satisfied with the new guy may be you should just take sometime to get to love yourself then you will get to move on with out regrets
2006-09-29 20:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Booker W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything
In ur case, u might get married with some1 else but u will always think of him. Not sexuallly, just about how he is doing
2006-09-29 20:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Justme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋