Isabela to them... should I tell them to call me mommy or auntie or what? Thanks!
2006-09-29 20:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should probably add that i really am their aunt (blood)
2006-09-29 20:36:58 · update #1
Better to be callled as "mommy isabela" for sweeter sound to them...
2006-09-29 20:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are going to marry their father then you will not be their aunt, you will be their MOTHER by law. But they do Not have to call you mom if they chose not to, they can continue to call you by your first name Isabela. It's perfectly normal and natural for your stepdaughter or stepson to call you Isabela. Allow them to call you Isabela until they are ready to call you mommy. I had lots and lots of friends when I was growing up that had a stepmom or stepdad and they always called them by their name, never auntie or uncle. Never mommy or daddy, it was always John, or Mike, or Isabela, etc. My mother got divorced and remarried and I never called another man Daddy, I always called my stepfathers by their first names Danny,Rick,Donald,Bobby, etc., Please DO NOT ask those kids to call you Auntie. That would sound very inbred if they had to call you Aunt Mommy. lol lol Just let them call you Isabela. Isabela is a beautiful name, hunny!
2006-09-29 20:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry a guy without kids ... why do you want some other woman's snot nosed little brats to take care off ...
All those bastards will do is resent you and say "you are not my mother"
Screw that .... find yourself a real man ... a man that knows how to pull out instead of putting in child support!
Oh also if you marry a guy with child support the state takes your income into the household consideration for income and you will have to pay child support as well ... have fun !
2006-09-29 20:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean I didn't answer this question??Probably because I was off explaining to people that I was answering your questions for entertainment purposes only. Heyyyyyyyyy I thought you said you were out of points!!!! And here I just went and made another pot of coffee.
2006-09-29 20:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i beleieve if they are ur fiance's kids.. they are ur respnsiblity too! i mean now they are your kids too .. well calling mom would matter much.. u can ask them to call u
1. mom
2. isbela mom
3. isbela
aunty would look weirdo ..
2006-09-29 20:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by gorgeous girl . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are all of your problems about your fiance? get a life.
ps- tell them to call you Billy
2006-09-30 11:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by amloompa21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should call you by your first name.They can't call you "mom" and,if they are old enough,they should introduce you as thier stepmom to thier freinds like "Hey Guys,this is my stepmom (your name)."
2006-09-29 20:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give a kid a computer and their IQ drops to 2
2006-09-29 20:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are their "blood aunt"? What are you doing?! Marrying your brother!?!?!?
2006-09-29 20:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by jazzyjd5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both...so u did have Lotta problems until your points become negative!
2006-09-30 00:46:32 · answer #10 · answered by love_in_u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋