help please and no retarded answers!!!!
2006-09-29 20:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 is too young to fall in love. it could be infatuation. ask her to get out of it.
2006-09-29 20:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. at that age, people are normal to admire older people or people at the same age. They actually need to experience that in order for them to enjoy every stages of growing up. It willl also develop their maturity. Its just a transition in every stages of life and its normal. What you should be worried about is, the Adult (The Principal) make sure that he is trustworthy and will never take advantage of the child's feelings that can result to child molestation. Be open with her and tell her that its ok but she has take care of herself as well by telling you if there is anybody who's making an odd actions towards her. Educate her as well about puberty and something about adolesence development stage and all that. And most important of all. Her safety.
2006-09-29 20:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by halanah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its infatuation.she should get over it soon.just mention that its crazy.but dont go on repeating how odd her 'love' for the principal is,it'll just make her more stubborn.ignore her love,just listen but dont comment.be with her and see that she doesnt do anything stupid like proposing to him etc.if u think shes going over-board confide in ur school councellor or an elder member of ur or her family.but dont ger entangled urself.at the end of the day its her life not urs so u r in no way responsible for her.
2006-09-29 20:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea way too young she's feeling something different that she never felt before . Her imagination is taking her for a ride. She's very confused and in some kind of faze. Well, one day she'l bump her head and wake up a new person ^_^
2006-09-29 20:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by bigBERT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend in looking for love in all the wrong places, don't let her do something that she will reget later and if the principal is doing something he should not be doing than is is just as disturbed and she is.......this is not a question that should be asked in any form of fashion she needs a reality check
2006-09-29 20:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't unusual for people that age. She'll get over it after awhile. As long as there's no real relationship going on, and it's just her feelings from afar, it's not really a problem.
2006-09-29 20:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a crush, but the principal may know about this, and it is HIS job to nip this in the bud!
2006-09-29 20:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by fed up with stupid questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that she is only 13, and its only just a crush . once some cute young guy comes along she will snap out of it.
2006-09-29 20:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of help do you need sweety? its not going to happend. your friend needs to wake up. throw some water on her face. Its just a phase shes going through shell get over it.
2006-09-29 20:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by wonder woo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not in love. she thinks she is but she's not. she's just obsessed with this old guy. she needs to get a lil boy her age.
2006-09-29 20:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by ...guess.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋