my boyfriend responded to 5 girls personal ads in craiglist saying he is single and asked 5 strangers to go out on a date with him to enjoy good times and even gave out his phone number. he is usually so charming with me and is trying to move in together, and talks about our future children and married life. He also loves to go to the club alone, but since i told him i dont think is right to go alone, he tries to stay home. he refuses to take me. and now he figured out he wants to be a dj. he also wants a weeklong vacation alone once we get married. the majority of his friends are single, drink and party too much. i am divorced with a 7 year old he says he cares about, and plays with him videogames. in other areas he is pretty good, just cant understand his odd behavior
2006-09-29 20:26:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a 7 year old child that you need to be worrying about right now, hunny. It sounds to me like if he is going to be in your life then you will have two children (the 7 year old, and the boyfriend). Your boyfriend is a child and it really doesn't sound like he is going to grow up anytime soon to make you a happy wife. If you do get married, it will most likely end in divorce. He is trying to be alone on vacation, be alone at the club, and he is trying to pick up chicks on the internet. What more information do you need before you realize that he is an idiot and a cheater? You deserve better, and your 7 year old child deserves a better man to be the father. Please do not marry this idiot, and please keep this idiot away from your 7 year old child! Your child does not need this bad influence!
2006-09-29 20:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a few friends that are dj's too, if he's serious about it then he needs to start by getting the right equipment, but he is going to have to invest a lot of money. He should know that its gonna take a lot of time and effort to get good. people think that they can become djs just by buying the equipment. I suggest going to ebay, he can find really quality stuff for a reasonable price. where does he want to go for his vacation alone after the wedding if its a winter wedding i suggest colorado but for a summer/spring wedding id say cancun (never been personally but heard great things.
i think its awesome that he plays video games with your kid. i could recommend all kinds of games. I play star wars with my son. Make sure to check out the ratings on the back not all games are designed with a 7 year old in mind.
And i think your boyfriend is cheating on you
take care
2006-09-29 20:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess he's not ready to settle down yet girl...Let him do his thing and tell him you'll do the same thing. Don't rush on things you'll regret in the future. Make the most of the relationship while its good. This can cause strain in the relationship and can really test your compatibility. Good thing you get to discover this at the early stage of your relationship while you can still get out. It's not to late to back out!
2006-09-29 20:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is on a different level then you are.....it seems that you are ready for a commitment, but he is NOT!!! If he is responding to girls personal ads then he wants to be with other girls!!! You need to move on! You don't want to teach your 7 yr old that you will put up with this behavior! You deserve a man that treats you like his queen!!!
2006-09-29 20:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 03:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we end up realising that we've been in love with the wrong person. And it hurts badly to think of moving on despite of being hurt by them.
Hope you find someone who truely cares and honestly loves.
2006-09-29 20:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do you need the truth to puncture your skull???because it's already knocking you in the head and you are just overlooking it. he doesn't really want to be with you. he wants you and the 5 other girls and whatever else is gonna come along. get out and find a decent guy for your child's sake... he is not worth her or your time until her gets his stuff together...which i seriously doubt.
2006-09-29 20:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry i have to say this. but are you sure you want to be with him? i don't hink it would be good for you. right now you are already complaining too much and you're not even married yet. you can find lots of guys out there who will be a better partner for you.
P.S. - i agree with you, he is really weird
2006-09-29 20:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT doing it for him, not being exciting enough, not sexually adventurous and probably could do with losing a few pounds..should I go on are you getting the picture. Experiment, do anal oral etc live out his fantasies, tone up and stop the whining and nagging or you will end up alone with your kids wondering why you never took the advice.
2006-09-29 20:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are unclear spots in your relation, be frank with him and clarify them before anything , otherwise I do not think you will witness a successful marriage or marriage at all.(he might be cheating).
2006-09-29 20:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋