I met this guy last April and we had a short relationship for about 2 and a half months, but he ended it with me because he was going back to school 2 months later and he didn't want to get into a long-distance relationship, plus he no longer felt "sparks" for me. Yet he still called me to hang out with him and his friends, and when I denied he was very upset, and even a year and a half later he's still talking to me on MSN. I also moved to another city and he'll be visiting friends here in a week for 5 days... he asked me to go clubbing. I never got over him even though I saw other guys in between.... and even today still have strong feelings for him. Should I meet up with him? Or is that a mistake in itself if it'll never be anything more than a hookup?
2006-09-29 20:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sorena L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already have the strong feelings. If you don't go, would you feel worse than if you go and it's just a hookup? Apparently you are at least a good friend to him. If that's not enough for you and you would feel badly meeting only as friends, maybe let him know this time, so he understands why you're declining.
2006-09-29 21:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely only because your 14 would not advise you shouldn't care. acquaintances are extra important then relationship. regrettably its very case certain yet because you're in reality the aggressor and he's in reality shy its on your palms. I have determined (as an man or woman) my relationships (lady friend, acquaintances, and so on) i'd be in a well mannered way direct. In different words something alongside the lines of declaring "i somewhat ought to apply a pal, are you up for it?" then again in the experience that your somewhat shy to boot your age is a huge income only bypass a be conscious declaring something, or textual content.
2016-11-25 03:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting up with him can't hurt. But be sure you decide before you go out what you want from it. Don't wait until you are clubbing and decide that you can't enjoy it without a deeper relationship.
2006-09-29 21:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by love_ca_sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him up only if u r sure u can take it even if it wont be anything more than just clubbing.
2006-09-29 20:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋