Singles & Dating - 18 September 2006

Well, this theres this girl in my class that I really like, as in the perfect girl for me. I've liked her for a long time. And all I do is show her how good of a guy I would be to have as a boyfriend, unlike a lot of the other idiot guys in my grade. Well, I found out that for some reason, I creep her out. And honestly it really hurt when I found that out. I have never done anything remotely creepyish. But even though she said this, I still can't get over her, I still have feelings for her. And when I tried to confront her about what I heard she avoided the conversation. What does that mean and what should I do? I really do like this girl, and I swear to God my life would be nothing without her.

2006-09-18 09:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by dulla mae 2

ok my best friend asked me out and was playin but i got real emotional bout it and he knows i like him ......... for me to find out he was tryin to get me hooked up w/ his cousin.....
i know he likes me ....... and he says he sorta meant it but not right now ! should i play w/ his emotions too !!??

2006-09-18 09:44:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 09:43:34 · 5 answers · asked by blackgirl 1

Alright, so i was sitting on the bus with my friends, and this girl sits down next to me. My friend says, yo asian, to me, i know hes kidding, so im just like, yo my favorite pink guy on this bus, and then the girl asks what i am, so i say filipino, and she says, i dated a filipino before. . .
girls, would you say this to any guy, or just a guy that you might like *crosses finger*

2006-09-18 09:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by babsa_90 4

How risky is this?

2006-09-18 09:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by Ken 2

2006-09-18 09:42:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

friend and his wife trying to set me up with his sister. . they are mostly doing it to get her off the bad guys and with a good one. Problem is she is a nice person but I am not attracted to her. I did not want to offend them nor her so I told them I don't date friends sisters because of ramifications that could happen if relationship goes bad. This is a rule I do stick to, but was not main reason i graciously refused. Is is ok to feel guilty for not being 100% truthfull?

2006-09-18 09:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

That seems like a lot to me... and I am hoping that its not the going percentage in todays world. If so we have a lot of sicko men around!! The good part is that all of these girls were great normal type of person ... even after all that they have benn through!! THE QUESTION IS THIS...DO YOU KNOW ANYONE THAT WENT THROUGH THIS TOO? aND HOW COMMON DO YOU THINK IT IS??

2006-09-18 09:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 09:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jim 2

It's getting stupid, People ask stuff like "Why is he shy when hes near me?" "Should I brake up with him he cheated on me?" "Should I ask her out?" All of it is so lame I hate this board because of this I am now asking stupid questions my self!

2006-09-18 09:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want the gift to be meaningful yet fun

2006-09-18 09:40:16 · 11 answers · asked by Liz V 2

My G/F says that my penis is "OK" but she would like somehing alittle bigger. She has a vibrator and it is huge. She gets off when we have sex but she seems to really like the big vibrator.

2006-09-18 09:37:39 · 30 answers · asked by Tyson E 1

I'm 19 and dating a 25 year old. And everything's great, but the most annoying thing is when people say "Oh, you must've had a bad relationship with your dad, because now you're trying to date guys who are older so they can fill the gap."

I actually had a good relationship with my dad. And this guy is only 6 years older--nowhere near old enough to be my father.

I don't get it. Help?

2006-09-18 09:37:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK- My best friend lives with her boyfriend, they have been together around 3 years. They are the model couple. I am close with both of them.
Today she went home, and went to go online, and a few of his IM's were left up on the computer. She read them. They were conversations with girls. One of them was extreme flirting and him saying "so do you want me to come over?" As well as other light "sex talk".Apparently, it sounded like a serious conversation, from what she read.
She confronted him about them, and he swears that he was just joking around with some old friends he hasn't talked to in a while. He does have a lot of girl FRIENDS that he is flirtatious with, but he does NOT seem the type to cheat. I know him really well.
He called me and is really upset. I think he shouldn't have been talking like that to other girls, but I don't think he is cheating, do you?

2006-09-18 09:36:38 · 16 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2

he will only looks at me from far away and when i do catch him staring at me he will start blushing and looks away really quick but if he gets close to me or i get close to him he won't even look up or look my way ...why is that?

2006-09-18 09:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3

I have found the one I've been looking for my whole life she means more to me than life itself and yet I'm afraid to ask the ultimate question. help?

2006-09-18 09:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 09:34:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has been with her boyfriend for two years now but recently she has reason to not trust him so she is also seeing this other guy at work just for sex(i guess it's a revenge). She has also been seeing another man for five months now,he is in love with her but she doesnt love him and is just using him for his money. I'm worried all this is gonna turn out messy for her,what advice should i give her?

2006-09-18 09:31:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a few important things to tell you, and I don’t know the best way to bring you my message. I am no good at conversations and the mail is too slow, so I am emailing you. I think I will be best understood this way.



I don’t know where to start, but first I want to thank you for the kindness, generosity, and attention you’ve shown me over the past 2 months. This has been a very special time, and I have enjoyed getting to know you and experiencing the pleasure of your company.



It would be selfish of me to pretend that we do not have a few differences. I have been honest with you in answering all questions, but some facts remain unsaid.



Several times over the course of getting to know you, you’ve mentioned in your outlook for the future that one goal you’d like to reach is to get married. For the purpose of total honesty, I cannot continue to refrain from telling you that personally, I currently have no future interest in becoming married and/or living with someone. You deserve to have what you want in life, and I do not want you to waste your time pursuing me if that is something important to you.



If what I have just told you ends it for you, then I will quietly step away and thank you with great appreciation for the wonderful memories. If you still wish to continue with seeing each other, making love, etc., I will be quite thrilled. Really, we can only take things one day at a time and see how it goes.



The notes you send me & the gifts are lovely. However, I am increasingly uncomfortable accepting gifts and your (very thoughtful and elegant) love letters. To me, things have moved too fast and have taken too serious of a tone. I hope you do not feel like I am rejecting you, because I’m not. I just cannot keep up with this pace. It scares me. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before, so I don’t know what to do.



On one hand I am amazed and flattered by the effort and emotion you put into these things, but on the other hand I am totally confused. I hope you are not offended by this question, but do you think you are serious when you write that you love me? I just can’t help but wonder if you’d say these things to any woman that came along, because you have been lonely for awhile. Please think about whether you are really in love, or just wanting a feeling to hang onto and that I just happen to be in your reach.


Whatever conclusion you may come to, please remember that I adore you and I greatly appreciate the comfort and relief of the physical contact you give me. I have made all these important points with a heavy heart hoping that I do not in any way cause you unhappiness.



I look forward to seeing you again, if you wish, and the chats we have. If this news is all total devastation to you, some consolation is that I can at least return to you a couple of your gifts which I have left unopened in the event of this not working out, so you can get your money back. I guess at some point I realized I’d better find out which way this is going to go, before really truly being able to accept your generosity.



So, I hope that I have stressed enough how much I appreciate you, cherish your kindness and what might even be a special bond starting to develop. Only time will tell. My offer to you is your opportunity to step away, no harm done, if my harsh reality has struck too hard. Or, maybe, you will be relived knowing you do not need to do all those grand gestures anymore. I know you will think about this thoroughly, and I will be thinking of you with a great amount of care and concern as you decide what is best for you.

2006-09-18 09:31:22 · 11 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

don't you think it would be very painful or how do you find a person that will pierce it.

2006-09-18 09:30:06 · 8 answers · asked by Sandra 4

Im 16 and they have started to become more frequent bout thrice in a month.Each time a greater force so much so i cud feel it in my sleep.And the end result is well really messy and smelly.Is this anything serious?Im a virgin and have never masturbated...and i dont want coz ive heard it can turn into a habit.Wot shud i do?

2006-09-18 09:29:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets get started me and this guy was kinda seeing each other i think any way.He is my mother's boyfriend son my mum found out that me and him slept together and kissed each other and she wasn't very happy but he dad was ok We used to go to the pub i used to go to the pub with my mother and he used to go to the pub with his dad.This guy and i used to flirt with each other all the time and we used to met up away from my mum.Even said lets get some beers and watch a dvd together and it was his birthday the next morning. But he wanted me to brake up with my boyfriend cause he was hitting me .Then he wanted me and him to get together .We did finishs cause my mum found out.But two years on on my birthday he was flirting with me asking to dance with him when my boyfriend went to the toilet and we he went home he gave me a hug and a kiss and the other day i saw him and he aways says hello so what i want to know is do u think he still likes me ?

2006-09-18 09:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by yates1239 2

it's always lust or infatuation. i want to love and love and love. how do i know when it's real?? and how does it feel like? when will it come? and is it possible to fallin love more than once?

2006-09-18 09:26:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

"To the World,you might be one Person. But to that ONE Person,you might be the World"...Would this be a Cool qoute to make someones day?....and if so..would it make yours?..

2006-09-18 09:25:33 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Munchie 2

Im 16 and they have started to become more frequent bout thrice in a month.Each time a greater force so much so i cud feel it in my sleep.And the end result is well really messy and smelly.Is this anything serious?Im a virgin and have never masturbated...and i dont want coz ive heard it can turn into a habit.Wot shud i do?

2006-09-18 09:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems like the two of you are better off without each other. Like you are a better person without them than with them.

THIS IS JUST A QUESTION. PLEASE NO Dr. Phil answers about me improving my relationship. Again this is just out of curiosity.

2006-09-18 09:24:41 · 16 answers · asked by Microbiology.girl 5

I was in a relationship with for about a month or 2 and before that we were really good friends and had an amazing connection we talked for at least 5 hours every night....but then we broke up cuz I was moving away he ended up calling me names for no reason it has been a month now and I just cant stop thinking about him or get him out of my head I just really miss that connection Im fighting my temptation to call him I know we werent together all that long but I really cared about him and have never felt a stronger connection with anybody I tried calling him like twice about 4 weeks ago and he never ansewered or called me back....I saw him about 2 weeks ago and we talked but it was awkward so I called him that night and he answered but he said he was at a friends house so we didnt really talk he said we should hang out when I get back into town and call him then and that was the last I spoke to him I still really want to call and talk to him should I? would it seem desprate?

2006-09-18 09:24:27 · 6 answers · asked by paperback_writer909 2

So i am in a long distance relationship. I have been for about 3 months. At first it was going great, we talked everynight on the phone and occasionaly online too. but latly he hasnt been calling me, and im afraid he may have moved on. I dont know how to gain his attention and let him know that i love him. I am going to see him again in about two months but i dont know if our relationship wil last that long unless i do something drastic. can somebody help me? or is this a lost cause???

2006-09-18 09:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by sh3lbii_2401 1

your partner complains that you make it too tight on him and cannot just relax, what can you do or what does that mean?

2006-09-18 09:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by franky c 2

Guys Only Question! I have always wondered what gets boys attention. I know that it is different for everyone but I was just wondering.

2006-09-18 09:20:18 · 12 answers · asked by babi_gurl 2