I was in a relationship with for about a month or 2 and before that we were really good friends and had an amazing connection we talked for at least 5 hours every night....but then we broke up cuz I was moving away he ended up calling me names for no reason it has been a month now and I just cant stop thinking about him or get him out of my head I just really miss that connection Im fighting my temptation to call him I know we werent together all that long but I really cared about him and have never felt a stronger connection with anybody I tried calling him like twice about 4 weeks ago and he never ansewered or called me back....I saw him about 2 weeks ago and we talked but it was awkward so I called him that night and he answered but he said he was at a friends house so we didnt really talk he said we should hang out when I get back into town and call him then and that was the last I spoke to him I still really want to call and talk to him should I? would it seem desprate?
2006-09-18 09:24:27 · 6 answers · asked by paperback_writer909 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't call him, call some other guy. That will help in moving on.
2006-09-18 09:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in similiar situations because of divorce. I know how bad it hurts to lose someone, but I would suggest that you just back off and give the guy some space. If you continue to pursue him when he is NOT reciprocating, it will seem like you are chasing him. And all that will do is make him run away faster. I know that this is so difficult ....why don't you take this time and focus on YOU. Do some things to better your own life. Take care of yourself because if you don't take care of yourself, no one will. There is nothing more appealing than a woman who has her life together and who is really living a full, healthy life. You have to be content in your singleness, you have to love yourself, before you will be ready to have a long-term relationship with anyone. I DO speak from experience! Stay strong! :)
2006-09-18 16:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by monetrober 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you can't quit thinking about it; you need to get complete with the situation. Meaning, call him, write him a letter, do what you have to but get an understanding of what happened. Yeah, you moved or are moving; but he made you feel a certain way when he called you names. Get clear on the situation, make yourself complete and then leave the past in the past. Move on & live for the moment. Many, many more guys will come along & you will see the reason it wasn't meant to be,:)
2006-09-18 16:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' sounds like he's moved on. you dont say how old you are. but at most any age there are alot of interesting people out there for you to meet and I'm betting that there is someone out there praying that they will meet someone like you. so dont be so down hearted, give your self permission to get mad at him and realize that you deserve better than to be ignored like he's doing to you. then you can start lookin for the right one. be strong he's out there
2006-09-18 16:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Timothy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be difficult but I think your should try to move on. Start dating other people and keep yourself busy so that you don't give yourself time to think about him. Time heals all wounds.
2006-09-18 16:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by texan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
2006-09-18 16:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋