That seems like a lot to me... and I am hoping that its not the going percentage in todays world. If so we have a lot of sicko men around!! The good part is that all of these girls were great normal type of person ... even after all that they have benn through!! THE QUESTION IS THIS...DO YOU KNOW ANYONE THAT WENT THROUGH THIS TOO? aND HOW COMMON DO YOU THINK IT IS??
2006-09-18 09:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible that you or they are drawn to each other because of the strengths and or weaknesses one of you mnaifests. I think it is a common problem and the degree of molestation has a lot to do with it. Fondling and groping are most common and are undereported- even though they leave emotional scars.
Could be that you are just an understanding person and they feel comfortable telling you because they know they will not be labeled or judged.
That is a good sign about your personality. Get some reading material and read up on how to address the sitution if the need arises in the future. You could be the link that helps some girl get over her negative experience and on with her life.
2006-09-18 10:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the percentage of girls being molested is very high. If its not the father its one of the uncles or close friends. And its possible more than 3 of them were, some dont tell. There are a lot of sicko men around, you have no idea. Most girls aren't even given the chance to trust men when their life starts out like this.
2006-09-18 09:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That seems to be a much higher percentage than found in the general population. It is very possible that you "select" that personality. Don't assusme that they will have no after effects from the molesting because they seem normal when you knew them. Many problems don't surface until well into adulthood. We have nieces who were molested and have become acquainted with three or four.
2006-09-18 09:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every boyfriend I've had with the exception of one has told me a similar story: the girls they've dated have 2 things often in common ~ molestation or no Dad at home at all.
I personally don't KNOW anyone whose DAD messed with them, though. Guys or girls. Also, many of my boyfriends were MOLESTED by babysitters, but they just think it was the greatest opportunity that their 20 year old babysitter or friend of the family slept with them when they were 9 or 10.
Sick and so sad.
2006-09-18 09:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm actual uncertain once you're trolling or no longer, yet right here is my 2 cents. the incontrovertible fact that the charges have been dropped and not something approximately this ever got here up back makes it look very probably that his ex replaced into mendacity just to attempt and get him in hardship. Very youthful infants are extremely manipulated into saying issues like that, and clearly the police/DA did no longer locate adequate data to pursue expenditures themselves, or they could have. in case you haven't any longer had any problems with the infants on your place, then i could say you're nerve-racking for no longer something. additionally, all the flaws you record as being features of a pedophile are no longer scientific data. maximum pedophiles are short?? quite? that's what you're going off of? take a examine out the Diagnostic and Statistical instruction manual of psychological issues for an quite definition of pedophilia.
2016-10-17 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by janski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is estimated that over 75000, children are molested daily that are reported they said the number could more than double if others came forward and reported it.
The problem is far worse than people will open their eyes to see. Many supress abuse and that the percentage of living males and females who have been molested and or raped living today could be as high as 80%.
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2006-09-18 09:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, It's very common.
I myself had it happen to me. More than once.
The thing of it is, most of us are to scared to stand up and say something about it. So it goes unchecked and mostly unnoticed. Eventually we'll get the courage to tell someone about it. Maybe not blab it to the whole world, But it's a step in the right direction.
As far as the fact that they were normal type people. Yeah, usually they are. It's a form of control and comfort. Something along the lines of 'If I act normal than I am normal'. As if, if we
pretend hard enough that it didn't happen, it'll be like it didn't.
2006-09-18 09:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha Arsenic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know this about all of your girlfriends? I mean, is it one of the standard questions you ask your date? “Hi, I have a few questions for you…first of all, what’s your sign? What’s your favorite color? You’ve ever been molested by your father?
Buddy, find some normal chicks. YES 3 out of 8 is VERY HIGH, no matter if you asked the question or not!
2006-09-18 09:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by hailyankees 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating girls who were molested by their fathers.
2006-09-18 09:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its more common than most people care to admit because our world is full of secrets and "skeletons in our closets" so to speak--sad stuff
2006-09-18 09:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋