friend and his wife trying to set me up with his sister. . they are mostly doing it to get her off the bad guys and with a good one. Problem is she is a nice person but I am not attracted to her. I did not want to offend them nor her so I told them I don't date friends sisters because of ramifications that could happen if relationship goes bad. This is a rule I do stick to, but was not main reason i graciously refused. Is is ok to feel guilty for not being 100% truthfull?
2006-09-18 09:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um.....imnotbtam you must have missed first sentence. "friend's sister". stay out of the sun kiddo cause being so shallow you'll dry up quick.
2006-09-18 10:14:47 · update #1
No, if you told the truth, you would have hurt all of their feelings, you did just fine
2006-09-18 09:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to feel guilty... If your not attracted to her and dont wanna say it straight up then dont. I think the way you did it was the best way.
If the guilt doesnt go away.. Just come clean and tell your friend.
2006-09-18 09:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by littolonerboi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but if you can find any honesty in the answer than its ok. It's better than being tied down to an ugly chick, then not wanting to break it off and hurt the relationship w/ your friend right?!
2006-09-18 09:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have choose the best diplomatic answer, she'll find a nice guy(maybe) but its a shame it isnt you, you sound like a jolly decent chap to me, I'm surprised your single
good luck
2006-09-18 09:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because you did not want to hurt her. but just talk to her in private and tell her the whole trueth. because she might not even like you like that you will never no until you talk to her. but be nice about it.
2006-09-18 09:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by DOUBLE CAKES 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better reason then i could think of, and yea of course you will feel guilty about that, but charity and dating dont mix
2006-09-18 09:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by babsa_90 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be nice and tell him that u'll introduce her to someone buy u don't want to date her b/c it may ruin yalls friendship
2006-09-18 09:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you are only human,right?
2006-09-18 09:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with her, get what you can off her, go on with your life.
2006-09-18 09:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋