Well, this theres this girl in my class that I really like, as in the perfect girl for me. I've liked her for a long time. And all I do is show her how good of a guy I would be to have as a boyfriend, unlike a lot of the other idiot guys in my grade. Well, I found out that for some reason, I creep her out. And honestly it really hurt when I found that out. I have never done anything remotely creepyish. But even though she said this, I still can't get over her, I still have feelings for her. And when I tried to confront her about what I heard she avoided the conversation. What does that mean and what should I do? I really do like this girl, and I swear to God my life would be nothing without her.
2006-09-18 09:45:32 · 14 answers · asked by dulla mae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the reason she says you creep her out is that u may be coming on too strong for her and it's making her nervous. You should give her space for a while and when the situation comes down you can try again, this time be more patient and let her do most of the the talking, it would make her feel better about you. Good Luck
2006-09-18 09:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably stare at her or make sure you are in her line of vision or walk beside her in the halls witha puppy dog look about you. That is creepy when it is not desired behavior for the " love " of your life.
Maybe you should chill and just be yourself and quite trying to impress her so hard. The fact that you confronted her and did not hang your head in shame when you heard she said you were creepy is enough to let everyone know that you are creeping her out.
I am about to be 40 and when a guy tries too hard it still creeps me out. I either like you or I don't. So when he goes overboard trying to get my attention it is weird. Maybe that is how she is feeling. Bottom line is - if she isn't into you then it is time to find someone else that is perfect for you.
I know you say you think she is perfect but think about it- if she is perfect for you then you would not creep her out. Enough said.
2006-09-18 16:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently you haven't been hiding your feelings very well. While you've been trying to be a nice guy, she's kinda' seeing that there's something there that you're not telling her.
What most people (not just girls) find attractive is people who are comfortable in their own skin. What she's finding creepy (if that's even the case) is that since you're hiding your feelings for her, she can sense that, and your behavior doesnt' seem right to her. You act like you like her, but then not really. That's the making of a stalker and someone who IS creepy.
2006-09-18 16:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy u need to calm down girls dont like it when you put them on petalstools there is no such thing as the perfect girl but it may be a such thing as a girl with a perfect body
do u like this girl for her and do u know her
i think u should back off and talk to another girl thats hot and just have fun and dont try to find a wife your still young but if u pay attention to other girls and be a good boyfriend to them then she would see u as boyfriend material
just calm down
2006-09-18 16:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by sayian_98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start saving every penny you ever make. With some good investments, and a little luck, you should have enough money in about 20 years to change her mind.
2006-09-18 16:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you creep this girl out honey its for a reason find out what that is and fix it tell her how you feel and may be just maybe shell give it a try
2006-09-18 16:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Intense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm you almost had me untill the last statment. You might be coming on too strong. I also think you should find yourself another girl that your life would be nothing without.
2006-09-18 16:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and date someone else, then she will see how great you really are and maybe want to date you. Good luck!
2006-09-18 16:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by moniiluv17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her that you didnt mean to make her creepy. If you can write her a letter and tell her that if she is avoiding you.
2006-09-18 17:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a little. Give her some space and she will come back to you.
2006-09-18 16:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by coolkidd2379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋