Singles & Dating - 15 September 2006

I've been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 months, we see each other all the time (which is something at a 40 min drive) and I often sleep over at his place, about 5 times a week - often in succession. Things are going well, we're 'exclusive' and such the only thing is that his ex screwed him over and now he's 'uncomfortable around relationships'. To me what we have is a relationship, but he occasionally makes comments to say it's not.
IE we'll be talking about something that he says he does for girlfriends, i say he hasn't done that for me "you're not my girlfriend yet" or "maybe when you're my girlfriend"

I don't push any title because it's really not that important (though it would be nice) but i fear he's doing this for an easy way out not just because he's afraid of the titles....
Should I be worried this is his easy way out, or is it as he claims?

to preempt questions. I'm 100% he's not seeing someone else, and we're both in our early 20's

2006-09-15 02:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by attila 6

2006-09-15 02:15:52 · 5 answers · asked by a_bi_nympho 1

I have problems getting the convidence to ask young women out on dates because I am a very shy person and the only place I see Beautifull young women is when I go for a walk but I don't know what to say to a young women when I am attracted to them because I get very nervous and clam up the most I can do is smile at them and that's it please can you tell me what women want's to hear from a man that they have just met on the street how shall I proceede to ask her out what is the best way to go about it thank you.

2006-09-15 02:13:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

Ladies, would you ever consider going out with a guy that does not get along with his family?

I have a brother and a sister and numerous step sisters. I hate all of them, and they all hate me. It is just the way it is in my family.

the only member of my family that I speak to is my mother.
Ever since we were young, me and my siblings always fought and argued, we all competed for my mother affection, and never cared about building strong relationships with each other. It often got very violent between my an my brother.

When were we were young, everybody would say "oh, they young, its just sibling rivalry, they'll gey over it". But we never, we still all hate each other. None of us speak, and I hate going back home for christmases. . I feel very uncomfortable around my brothers and my sisters, and I even decided to stay away last christmas.

I just wanted to know what the ladies thought about a guy that does not get along with his family. Would you date him or avoid him.

2006-09-15 02:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Playboy Grove 1

Are there any websites where you can meet people that are free? All the ones I seem to find cost. And they cost a lot. Why should you pay to meet someone. I live in a small town and its hard to meet new people. And I hate going to clubs. No stupid answers please.

2006-09-15 02:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl000000 3

2006-09-15 02:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by enny4u2love 1

what do i do????

2006-09-15 02:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf have been together for about a year and a half off and on. we just recently got back together after a 3 month breakup. i love him so much but we broke up because i found out he lied to me about some stuff. now we are back together and he is trying to gain my trust back, but i have no clue how to trust him again, i love him and want to be with him but i cant be with someone i dont trust. i want us to work as much ads he does but im not sure if i can. HELP!

2006-09-15 02:00:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

why i dont know im 22 .can say mature.why im having this" deewangee" pls stick on topic

2006-09-15 01:59:39 · 20 answers · asked by villie 1

Which people are the most romantic as well? Italians, French????

2006-09-15 01:58:22 · 9 answers · asked by Ickey J 1

2006-09-15 01:57:34 · 20 answers · asked by lhb 1

I think that I am falling for an older guy...I am 19...he is 36. My friends are concerned and I understand their concern.But is the age gap too big???Or can any feelings had overcome this....

I do not want criticism...I cannot help my feelings...so I just want opinions. Not hurtful comments.

Thanx

2006-09-15 01:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by starlight_night_time 1

Any questions I should be asking?

2006-09-15 01:54:06 · 13 answers · asked by passion flower 1

2006-09-15 01:50:22 · 18 answers · asked by MG 1

chasing her...what should I do?

2006-09-15 01:49:14 · 22 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1

This girl, that i met in my 3rd period really likes me and she gave me her number. i was going to call it but i lost it and now its been 2 or 3 weeks since then and i dont know if i should call her , if i should what excuse could i make so that she doesnt think i forgot about her?

2006-09-15 01:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn T 1

2006-09-15 01:49:03 · 28 answers · asked by Paul M 2

2006-09-15 01:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by villie 1

Well I work in an office. I very much like a man. I let him know that I'm not trying to vamp him. I am just looking for some time and attention from someone I personally am drawn to and find attractive. I have invited him out a few times. He has refused. Sometimes he gives me the impression he likes me, and some he seems distant. The women I work with flirt with him, and know I like him yet still chase him. I'm stressed and have decisided that I will not hangout in the presence of him anymore. Because I can't stand to be treated like the polite stranger, when I would like to be more. Now to get to the point. Do you believe it is best that I just keep my distance for the rest of my life? which is basically what I have decided to do.

2006-09-15 01:46:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

To do to make you completely happy.What would it be.

2006-09-15 01:46:04 · 15 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3

I need to know what you notice in the difference in the way a male thinks and acts over a female

2006-09-15 01:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by sweet smile 2

I'm in my early thirties and I've been fantasising about a woman in her mid forties. It started when she started getting flirty with me. She's curvy in all the right places and divorced. She suggested a fling and I'm tempted.

2006-09-15 01:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by endagrogan 2

2006-09-15 01:40:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really getting to my mate( Dean) & he wants their relationship sorted out cos he can't stand the thought of her and her husband sleeping together.

2006-09-15 01:39:37 · 45 answers · asked by Sluugy 5

2006-09-15 01:38:52 · 7 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3

(and no, i don't have bad breath. In fact he smokes and he knows his breath stinks by a yard)
he only like to go straight for sex.
duh. WHY?

2006-09-15 01:38:48 · 27 answers · asked by Beth 3

sex and ********

2006-09-15 01:38:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a Rasta a little over two months. Last nite on the phone he randomly tells me I need to have my dog put to sleep b/c they aren't meant to have as pets, etc. So I say no I won't let's change the subject (I really didn't feel like entertaining this b/c I was already upset about something else) so he keeps pressing the issue and pisses me off and finally asks would I choose an animal over him and I said yes do you realize how ridiculous you sound and how insensitive that is? I go on to say that's almost like me asking you to quit having a relationship with your kids. So basically he hangs up on me and never lets me finish. I called and called and he didn't answer and finally turns off his phone. This AM he didn't answer again. I am in true love and this is really bothering me. 1. What do you think he's thinking and why is he acting so childish? 2. Is this over and should I just take it as a loss b/c my feelings are heavily involved? I'd really like people's opinion.

2006-09-15 01:37:19 · 26 answers · asked by FacingEviction 4

2006-09-15 01:34:45 · 4 answers · asked by zara c 4

here is this guy in my class that i have been in a relationship with...i broke up with him because i told my friends that me and him got together....he got mad over that n so i had to break up with him!....NOW he cant except the fact that i have moved on and now he stares at me all the time....it seems that we are drifting apart more n more....i know that he wants me back coz all the people told me that he stil does,he keeps on denying it bt he gets jealous for everything i do! WHAT SHOULD I DO....????!!!!!
what do i do if he stares at me like he wants to tell me something?

2006-09-15 01:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by 3d.gal.tammy! 1