Ladies, would you ever consider going out with a guy that does not get along with his family?
I have a brother and a sister and numerous step sisters. I hate all of them, and they all hate me. It is just the way it is in my family.
the only member of my family that I speak to is my mother.
Ever since we were young, me and my siblings always fought and argued, we all competed for my mother affection, and never cared about building strong relationships with each other. It often got very violent between my an my brother.
When were we were young, everybody would say "oh, they young, its just sibling rivalry, they'll gey over it". But we never, we still all hate each other. None of us speak, and I hate going back home for christmases. . I feel very uncomfortable around my brothers and my sisters, and I even decided to stay away last christmas.
I just wanted to know what the ladies thought about a guy that does not get along with his family. Would you date him or avoid him.
2006-09-15 02:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Playboy Grove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well since i'm not dating his family it would really depend on the guy. if i was interested maybe. also not how the guy treats his family but more or less how he treats his mother. no matter what your mom is still your mom make amends with her at least.
2006-09-15 02:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by dumbdumb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you think it's about time that you and your siblings talk about this "rivalry"? I think your mom would appreciate it more if you all get along well.
My husband's family, they always fight, shout with each other and call each other name. But at the end of the day, they are family and after the anger has gone, they'll start laughing and joking with each other.
I'm sure a lot of woman will understand and feel for you but I don't think any relationship you'll have will not last unless you learn to let go of the past and learn to forgive even when there is nothing to forgive. As I've said, your mom would be happier if all of you will get along better. She is not a competition. She loves all of you because you are her children.
2006-09-15 02:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by etang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine relations guy in basic terms has a really lazy writing artwork force, who won't be able to be stricken to go back up with thoughts to easily fill out the entire length of episodes. contained in the early episodes they'd some cutaway gags, yet now they do them consistently, so sometimes they take in 1 / 4 of the damn educate. The Conway Twitty scenes are truthfully the worst, regardless of the reality that. in the experience that they are going to waste 3 or 4 minutes of our time with something unrelated to the plot, a minimum of do yet another absurd wrestle with Ernie the massive rooster, or something else humorous. American Dad is unquestionably significantly better than relations guy, in my opinion. and definitely, both the Simpsons and Futurama are way better than both.
2016-11-27 00:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on your attitude although i would worry that when we had children you would revert to what you have learned and that is not love or respect,, that you would be competing for attention with the child as you and yours have,,this behavior is often hard to stop and also the family would not be a good one to be married into.
2006-09-15 02:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind it because I am an only child so if you don't speak to your family it would be like you are an only child, it kinda works out because I won't have to try so hard for their approval!!
2006-09-15 02:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah. I'm married to one. It isn't his fault that his family has such issues. Sometimes families just don't get along and it's better not to torture yourselves by forcing to be together.
2006-09-15 02:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by europa312 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dun even bother to tell them abt ur family...they are usually not so interested unless they are willing to settle down with u
2006-09-15 02:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women may like that because they wouldn't have to deal w/too many "in-laws"
2006-09-15 02:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by justem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm male
2006-09-15 02:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋